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Cynthia, 61

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Thanks for dropping in to look at my profile. The most important word in my life right now is "HUMANITY".... !!!! OK !!! I guess I should say that I am well mannered, lol and considerate of others. I also take horrible photos!! Before I say anything... I am looking for a gent who has integrity, respect, is honest (aren't most of us? I say with some naitivity???) and is excited about life, and so much it has to offer. That is for starters. I am liked by most, loved very well by some, and not so well by a couple, and have been out of any relastionship for 10 years,....so I am a bit slow off the mark! I will save the rest for conversation.... We are all looking for good people, and most here are. I am one. NO GAMES HERE!!!! Of that you have my word. I think conversation has to happen more than once before you know if there are any interests and connectedness. Here or in person. And I think meeting fairly soon is important once comfort in writing is established, even if it means a drive! You never know what you will find at the end of that drive..so many suprises have happened to many. Profiles and chat is not enough. Meeting over coffee is so important I think. Having a 2nd cup is even more important to know the other. That has been my experience.I have tons of interests and am passionate about many. OK.. I recently have moved to Sarnia On, many from Stratford, which was a mistake. I would happily move for the right person. I was planning a move close to Toronto in the next year to be closer to my grown kids. But I may not. I feel somewhat city-less at the moment. I love art, socializing, romance, more romance, kissing, movies, snuggling, did I say that? Country drives, flea markets, movies, animals, going out and staying in! Not a bar person, unless someone I know is playing music. I am not difficult to please. I dislike rudeness in any form and am touched by kindness in all situations. Also love home, pets, friends, and too many other things to list here... I love men who can show affection, and recieve it also. I have been on my own for some time now, and have decided I do not want to spend the rest of my life alone. Friends are great, but cannot replace the spark, intimacy, and knowing. that grows over time between two people, I like a man with honesty able to communicate, or willing to try, has integrity, like me. and trust that happens when two people click! And allow it to grow....building a relationship can be much fun and more! I am easy going, love to laugh, and have a good time doing most things. More later... Hobbies include painting, clay work, swimming,, (in pools), yard sales, I love the country, and driving in it, horses, hanging with friends, and laughing, as well as going to see new things and places. I have a strong interest in aborginal cultures and native history. I love brainstorming ideas on any topic! Many other interests. I also love walking along the lake or in the country, parks, spontanious day trips, and new adventures. :How can anyone list so much here! I have a spiritual side also, and love love puns.A first date, would depend on how well I knew the man. Many men talk freely, while others say little about themselves. If it was a man I knew well, I would start by going out and meeting for coffee, until we felt comfortable. Walking and talking seems a good first meet or just coffee? I really believe second meets are important,if not a must as (i.e. ME??? ) some may be shy or nervous at the first meeting??? The 2nd time maybe one or both maybe less nervous and more relaxed. I dated one man..(he came every weekend, only because of that 2nd meeting)....it was a 2 hour drive, for a year, as we were both were more at ease. We talked for hours....that second time.No players please... I have had my share so, please, play with yourself..lol MBThanks for reading me, and good luck to all.....!!!I would drive to meet someone after talking a while, when the time is right, probably half way if it is far from Sarnia. That is a given. Some cool stories about that later.WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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