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Madelyn, 40
United States, North Carolina, Durham

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Okay, I guess it's time for a real profile. Hard to take this site seriously sometimes. Let me start off with some of the things that I am not looking for from here. A booty call. Let's be real, I'm a single woman in a world with lots of men who are ready, willing and able. It's not hard to go out and get one. We all love sex, we know this already. But I'm not on here for that. I guess when you hit a certain age or stage in your life, the casual thing doesn't work anymore. To each their own, but it's not for me. (Even after saying this, I still wonder why married/attached men message me looking to hook up. Seriously! I'm not interested. I won't change my mind after I see your picture. LOL!)I don't want to be with your girlfriend while you watch from the corner of the room, or "keep her company" while you're out of town. As much as I like to shop, I don't want to go lingerie shopping and pick out some pretty frilly things for YOU to wear to play dress up. I'm sure you'll do fine and look fabulous with or without my help. A housekeeper would be verrry nice to have.. But I don't need someone to come over and clean my house for me in the nude while I sit there and watch. However, if you do know how to lay a carpet (no, this is not a euphemism) and can do the job fully clothed, we might have to talk. I don't want to humiliate you for your enjoyment, stomp on your man bits, be part of your foot fetish collection, sneak around with you behind your wife/gf's back, or be a model for your "agency."I'm sure there are women on here that can fill those voids that I simply cannot. And with that, I wish you all the best. What I am looking for is a good SINGLE man. Hardworking, great family, good circle of friends, positive, classy, happy, silly, independent. I'm in the process of trying to achieve a healthy body, so someone who can challenge me or open me up to new ideas and experiences would be great. But realistically, someone who likes fat chicks because this body isn't going to change overnight. I like a man that smells good, takes care of himself and has a little bit of fashion sense. I prefer men around my age. I'm not a cougar in search of you young bucks.. And I'm not interested in someone that is of an age that could potentially be my father. If you like to laugh and can handle a little sarcasm, then I'm sure we'll get along great. I have a 24 year old son. I've raised my child and have chosen to not have more. Even though I am personally done with bearing children, I am open to dating someone with a child.I am close to my family. There are only 4 of us (parents, son and myself) left in our little family. So we're tight! I'm an only child and even being a grown woman, I'm still daddy's little girl! I'm not religious. I'm not really sure how I even feel about God. If you're hardcore into a certain religion, I respect that, but we probably won't mesh well. I love, respect and support everybody! So if you're a bigot... again, we probably won't get along.I love animals. I have two small Shipoo pups. So please, no people that are allergic. I don't want to have to be breaking out the Benadryl to stop your sneezing fit every time you come over to visit. lolIt's nice to be able to put a face to the person that you're talking to, so please, have a picture. With the technology we have today, I'm not going to buy the excuse that you don't have a camera. Seriously?!? Your smartphone probably has a higher resolution than your camera anyway! And the classic, "I haven't had time to upload one." LOL Okay. If you can muster up a message that contains more than "hi"... then please, let's talk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Atheist

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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