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Very open minded and I never get bored. I'm looking for new experiences.. new adventure.. friends.. relationship, etc. No opportunity wasted! Whether the future is already written or not, I'm not going to stand in it's way. I have been single from a serious relationship for a while. I don't want to lead some one on if it's not love. I'm not going to settle to simply avoid being alone. I'm positive, intelligent, have a big sense of humor, I'm goal oriented, athletic, very caring, affectionate, strong on the outside and soft on the inside, very respectful, gentle and playful, creative, loyal, and I like to be spontaneous but like plans too, I like indoors and outdoors.. I'm an all around kinda guy. I listen to what other people have to say and I will be completely honest. I care a lot about my family and friends and we are close. I tend to be the mediator or go-to guy with both groups. I'm patient. I mostly put others before myself. I stand up for what I believe is right. I can be protective if it calls for it. I stay calm in emergencies. I'm non-violent meaning I don't have a bad temper and violence is usually a last resort. I feel that health and fitness is important for many more reasons then just looking good. My eyes change colors. I have a non-addictive personality. I have a goal to one day be independantly wealthy as I am a bit of an entrepreneur. I always want to learn and improve such as learning to play an ***, martial arts, skills, etc. I believe it's better to be prepared. I enjoy participating in sports MUCH more than I do watching them (unless I know someone in the competition), football is my favorite! I'm open to all music. I think every genre has some thing to offer. My favorites are new country, easy listening, pop rap, rock, and energetic music. I hope I've at least hit some of the basics. Feel free to ask me questions. I'm not easily offended and I promise to be friendly! :)It really just depends on who it is with. Everyone has different interests but I would definitely like to be creative for a first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Atheist

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Andreas

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    Man. 62 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 52-72

    UPDATE Jan ***. Hmmph, seem to be going the wrong way here. Today's BMI 26.3 with 9 lbs to go (I blame Santa) I did achieve my goal in August, but it didn't last :-( Guess I'm on the rebound (no, not that one! Been single for yonks) Better focus on my intake strategy a bit more lol.UPDATE Feb ***In the interest of staying alive, I have lost nearly three stones over the last couple of years through careful calorie counting and a bit of excersise. Got my BMI down from 31.5 to 26! just a weeny bit further to go now. Hoping for a perfect (& somewhat more healthy than I was) BMI 24.5 quite soon :)UPDATE March ***. Those pesky last few pounds are the hardest to shift! Not sure if I'll ever get there. Today's BMI 25.7. Just 5 lbs to go.I have short black hair (oh allright then, balding, greying and shaved but it used to be black!). I am just a bit quirky, but in a nice way. I'm an avid non smoker and I can't tolerate being in a smoky room. I'm not ruling smokers out completely. But be warned as you would likely get lot's of very enthusiastic encouragement to quit :-) I'm deffo not a boozer, just an odd glass of Stella, Scotch or red wine now and again. I can take it or leave it. I am squeaky clean, quietish, VERY touchy feely, sensitive, honest and reliable. I have to admit that I can be a bit backwards at coming forwards initially, but am fine once I get to know someone (so maybe you'd better break the ice with that first message!). Whilst I love to see animals in the wild, I am not a great fan of household pets. So if your ethos is "love me love my dog", then sorry but I may not be your 'perfect' man. My negatives are probably procrastination and just sometimes, I worry a bit too much. I am the original Mr "what if" :***However, I'm aware of these defects & I do aspire to be a bit more happy go lucky about stuff generally. Heaven forbid I can even be a bit spontaneous when that rare mood really grabs me. I have been divorced for many years and am ok with that. I have had a few steady relationships since but find myself single again (as you do). I'm happy enough being my own boss but I do miss some nice feminine companionship and that unique feeling of 'togetherness'. I have slowly learned over the years that to try and give pleasure is way more satisfying than just taking it. I truly loathe arguments and whilst I can stand my ground when needs really must, I do try very hard to prevent them. Good communication is vital to me. I enjoy regular swimming, gentle walks. Some photography, a tiny bit of motorcycling, the internet and fresh air are my hobbies. I love gardens, but am no gardener, though I could possibly become a bit more interested if encouraged by my new lady friend. I don't mind mowing the grass now and again.I have literally zero interest in football, or pubbing with the lads etc. I would much prefer female company as just a one on one with that special person. Have to admit I am a bit of a home body too. I swim very regularly (2 times a week) to try and keep fit. I left the rat race a good while ago, so have some time available. I am quite into anything technical/scientific and am pretty good at fixing most things. I get a buzz from fixing stuff that would otherwise probably just end up in a landfill. I have a great grown up son ***who lives away. I prefer to dress quite casually but not scruffy and love to wear jeans mostly (well I was a 60's teenager - still am!). I can scrub up OK if the situation really dictates that I must. I hate it when people use abbreviated lazy textspeak everywhere as seems to be so popular. Keep that stuff on yer mobile eh? Why abbreviate when there is no need to? If you are curious to know a little more about me, please lets have a chat. No obligations either way.I can't answer this as it depends somewhat upon what you like too! Whatever we both feel 100% happy with would be good. Something simple and relaxing where we could chat easily. Maybe a stroll in the local park or meet for a coffee or similar.I think I would like to meet a girl who is perhaps a bit younger than me. I would probably prefer someone who enjoys the really simple everyday things in life. I would go wobbly at the knees for a nice feminine curvy yet reasonably trim woman:***I know, typical bloke lol). I don't think that's being shallow, just plain honest. I believe some physical attraction is important initially, but also compatible personalities are vital and the chemistry must be there too. Loyalty and trust (both ways) is essential to me. I believe both should have their own 'me time', interests etc. I don't crave a 'let's live together' relationship, at least not until we both knew with absolute certainty that it would really work. I prefer to meet someone nice & local. Ideally within a 5 mile radius but certainly no more than 15 miles max. If you got this far, thanks for reading all this waffle! Good luck with your fishing! Peter Xxx

  • Micheal

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    Man. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 36-56

    Hi. Thanks for stopping by! Ok, about me....I have a variety of interests .I do enjoy cycling and the outdoors. I love to be creative. I recently started to play the guitar. I did so when I was younger, so this became a goal of mine. I'm very active, enjoying road cycling and I also play recreational softball. Professionally, I'm a Special Education teacher. I teach middle years children who are Autistic..they teach me actually. I moved up here 3 years ago. I'm looking for a woman that will love me for me. I'm not into controlling women who play games. That said, I believe that when you know a spark is there, communication turns it into a fire :) Lastly, physically, I'm a big guy. (not extremely heavy or anything). As stated, I like to work out & lead a healthy lifestyle, however I do enjoy cooking.I'm at a very content moment in my life & would like to share that with a special someone.A great first date would be causal. A meeting for coffee at a bookstore or a mall would be nice. If there is a spark, we can plan future dates.

  • Elmo

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    Man. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 30-50

    I have many interests, love music, concerts , the beach, fishing fresh and salt, Bow hunting, the outdoors, traveling to new places, amusement parks, sushi, swimming,,, what ever the day brings Where the hell are you?Depends

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