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Betsy, 40
United States, California, Modesto

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New Recent Pic - Not overly involved in the Online dating thing - but you never know.**************************************************************************************************************I moved to Vancouver Sept ***, Have settled nicely into my "as permanent as it gets" home in the Mount Pleasant area. I spent my time between family and friends I have close by, reading, cooking healthy food ( I'm in the process of trying to change my body and hopefully my outlook on life a bit too), exercising, and trying to figure out what I want to do with the next phase of my life.I'm a well educated, intelligent, somewhat sarcastic and apparently unusually pragmatic woman. Some of the Vancouverisms I have encountered make me shake my head - some I find I am adopting the longer I live here. That said - I am still the kind of girl who brings her own axe on a camping trip and is perfectly capable of splitting her own wood. Mind you - if you're better at it than I am, I'm happy to sit back and enjoy the view...I'd love to meet someone I "click with" to hang out with and get to know better. Hopefully someone who is excited to get out and do things in and around this fantastic city ( I can be a an introvert and a bit of a home body on my own). I'd love to be in a relationship a man who understands that it takes time and a mutual effort to get to know each other - Chatting online does not count. No one is perfect and we are all on our own journey. Do you think your paths might cross with mine? I realize that sounds cliche but then - cliche's find their roots in truth. One of my reasons for moving to Vancouver was to improve my life and provide an environment where I would be more successful in improving myself. While I believe in giving people the benefit of the doubt ( and lets face it - there is a lot of doubt when you meet someone online) I have a very low tolerance for drama. That said, if you think we might enjoy each others company or be part of each other's journey, drop me a line and we can go from there. In the mean time - I'll be living my life and wish you the best in yours. Cheers and good luck to all.Although I try to be optimistic - let's start with something short and sweet that can be extended if we want to. Grab a coffee and hit a trail or the sea wall.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Atheist

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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