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Leanna, 57
United States, California, San Bernardino

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About Me

Southern CA woman now in Missouri for the last 6 yrs.(continued after you read the following paragraph)STOP! Please make sure you ACTUALLY READ my profile before sending me a message. Not to be unkind but frankly, I am VERY weary of getting *** those that say they have read my profile when it's evident they have not!! I have a HEIGHT criteria (what part of that are the majority of you not getting????) and other things on my 'pecking list' so before contacting me, please actually read every word. Thanks so very much! If you are married and on here saying you are divorced, please don't contact me. I believe in the sacred vows of marriage and yes, there are those on here that state they are not married when they actually are. Sad, but true.I am a little older than what my profile states. I used to have my real age on here but had to change it due to getting way too much mail from men WAY older. I don't mean to be disrespectful in any way but I'm just not at a stage in my life to get excited about doing a slow, awkward waltz at the local Senior Citizens Center. I was blessed with looking younger than my true age and like yourself, am very, very young at heart. If age is a huge factor to you rather than what's in the heart of a good woman, then I doubt we'd make a good match.NOW...more about me....:-)I wasn't always a 'city gal' though. As a result, I love what both lifestyles have to offer. Now don't get the wrong impression, country boys. I'm not ready to help you milk cows or bale the hay - I'm not THAT much country. :-)I adore country music but also LOVE to dance/listen to all other types of music as well. (Okay...except for Rap!) I love enjoying life and all that it has to offer. I absolutely have to have humor in my everyday life and feel there are way too many people who can't seem to mix humor and responsibility together.I only date TALL men. (Tall to me is going to put you at no less than 6 ft barefoot!....NO cheating)My height is on my profile but am not one to wear flat shoes the majority of the time because I adore my high heels. I'm not one to date those that have those "few extra lbs" as they tend to be couch potatoes or their diet consist of more fried foods than it does healthy choices. Sure, I love to splurge myself on 'comfort foods' from time to time but simply put, please be height/weight proportionate. Also, if you are still sporting the "business in the front and party in the back" haircut...sorry, not my type.I'm not in the least bit arrogant and really very humble, thankful, and grounded but I do know what is on my own 'pecking list', so to speak. Not looking for someone perfect...just the perfect match for me. I do have 3 fantastic kids that are now out of the nest so I desire dating someone who does not have that every-other-weekend responsibility. I believe in chemistry between a man and a woman and when you have that, the butterflies in the tummy feeling are simply wonderful. I'm not one of those desperate women who needs a man to feel happy and content. Having the last love of my life involved in my life would just be a very pleasant enhancement.Hopefully, you are 'geographically desirable' in relation to Springfield. Otherwise, I may have to decline your wish to communicate. It's a little tough to be spontaneous when there's a large geographical distance in between. My photos are recent so hopefully, YOURS ARE also (not one of what you wished you still looked like.)I really also don't have much interest as to what your dog looks like...lol!!! If you do not have a photo posted or if you contact me and there's not one attached, I will not reply. Be kind...and simply follow the 'Golden Rule'....of treating others as you would like to be treated.Best wishes to all of you on your search to find someone to add a delightful extra boost of happiness to your life.What you DO for a first date? A first date isn't something you do....it's a meeting of two individuals who merely wish to get to know each other better. My true response on this one would definitely have to be:Two people simply relaxing and enjoying making a new friend.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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