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Carmella, 63
United States, California, San Bernardino

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About Me

Things about me:If you are looking for a Barbie-type woman, scatterbrained, skinny, and unable to think for herself, I am not the woman for you. I know what I want in life and am not afraid to pursue it. I am adventuous, fun, and passionate about the things I love in life. I do not need a man to define me or complete me. However, the sunshine after the rain just seems to shine brighter when having a partner to enjoy it with! Life is better shared with a partner that is with us because they want us and not because they need us! I have a Daughter, Grand-Daughter, and Grand-son the same age. Sure makes life interesting!God and Family are important to me. I am very much a family person. If you are not into family and do not believe in God, please pass me by. No need to waste our time.The longer I am on this site, the more I wonder, Can anyone be trusted anymore ??? I detest fakeness and don't understand people's need to prortray themselves as something/someone they aren't ! My pictures are current as I am not out to portray myself as someone I am not.I deserve a good man, someone who will respect me, love me, and be faithful to me, as I would be to him. Why are YOU so hard to find??? I have been looking for a long time now and turned down a few. Time to get serious about this situation as I am tired of being alone even though I can enjoy my own company. I am funny, charming, affectionate, loyal,and a good cook, Microwaves do wonders nowadays, and I can't live without my toaster oven. I even make home-made bisquits every few months, and can make better chili than Wendy's does. So, guys, tell me, what am I doing wrong? . and .. why do men say they will call and never do ?? (Yep, the million dollar question!) I am also smart, classy, not to mention sassy, and okay, also full of myself at times!! Well, I did say I was honest!! I know there has got to be a man that just can't live another day without me in his life!! Now, where are you ???? Life is too short to play with other people's feelings. I do not like anyone playing mind games with me as I am respectful of other's feelings and expect the same in return.Chance is always powerful. Let your hook always be cast; in the pool where you least expect it, there will be fish.OvidI just don't know anymore. Sometimes I wonder why it takes so long to get to that first date. I am not into *** texting forever. If two people have an interest in each other, why wait forever to make the first move ? I am open for suggestions on the first date as it seems everyone has a different idea! I would hope it would be somewhere we could get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Cycling
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