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To me Casual dating means meeting new friends. ...NOT casual flings !!!!!FYI -I do volunteer work at an animal rehabilitation center In Belize (mostly manatees and Monkeys!) The photos with animals are from the center...NOT tourist photo ops!!If you're looking for a ***suit and tie/downtown condo/drive a beamer kinda person....WRONG GUY!I do have an evolving career, but my work clothes are mostly quick dry and fleece, I live on my sailboat and drive a jeep! I'm not an outdoors nut/jock, but do enjoy camping year round, time at the beach, fishing at a little lake and of course time working on the boat (goes with the turf).I'm not a game player, and have been accused more than once of being "too nice", so it takes a while for people to really trust me, that's just who I am. I was a single dad for the a few years to 2 lovely girls. ....On my own now and time to get back to more things I enjoy. I'm a photographer and marine mammal naturalist by trade, a scuba diver by passion . I'm definitely looking for someone special to do things with, including walking, scuba diving and I'm learning to sail(no ego here if you know more than me on this one).. .http://youtu.be/OM5vLcwJmZ0 .....either above or below..... it's true!......K, If the average Canadian is a few pounds overweight then am I really a "few extra pounds" or just average? LOL .... I think the heading "favorites" sounds funny when you haven't even talked to someone..... my "favorite" list is more of a bookmark list of people I should write..."Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover." ~ Mark TwainPS. I seem to get more responses because of the damm whale pics then my pics! lol ... go figure!First meeting - kinda casual, coffee or tea and then maybe a walk too. Future times could be whale watching, kayaking/canoeing, even scuba diving........ but preferably doing something!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Atheist

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Man. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 22-42

    Simple:Human, from Mars, novelist, greatest person you'll ever meet.You'll never meet a more courageous, phylisophical person ever. I do ask for real people to contact me, or reply if I send something, yes or no is fine too. Tired of the bar, bored of clubbing. Rather go skydiving at 3am.Collecting spores molds & fungus. Rob a bank, take from the rich and give to the poor.Or.. Nerf gun battle

  • Elisha

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    Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 40-60

    I am looking for someone who would be interested in a long term relationship but no rush. Working with kids has made me flexible with someone who has kids; an open mind is crucial. I am at the time in my life where I need to give more than receive. I have kept far too busy with work, school, attempting to work on projects, etc. I do not judge people; circumstances, basic twist and turns of life, and general life experiences shape people. In short, everyone is shaped by their experiences. These experiences should teach us something.The story of my life is intereting and full of surprises (all good), yet incomplete. Hopefully, someone out there wants to add to the plot; develop a few chapters; enrich the story to make it more interesting. A thought provoking poem reads in part; "we have more ways to communicate but communicate less, we have more homes but more are broken, we take much more than we give, we have an excess of material possesions ..... I paraphrased some of this in my job and with a view of the cultural landscape I see this. Rather than complain I try to act as an agent of change in my small world and would love to meet someone like minded.If you are at all curious please send a message.House coffee somewhere along with good conversation should be good enough to discuss a second date.

  • Collin

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    Man. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 38-58

    Hello, I am a fun loving guy with a positive outlook! Life is short! Better enjoy it!I really enjoy a night at home with a friend, a bottle of vino and a great meal prepared together, or you can sit and watch and chat as I enjoy myself experimenting in the kitchen. I am out going, sociable and willing to do try anything once, sometimes twice!I am looking for someone who wants to do the West Coast Trail as badly as I do!!!I am attracted to confident, happy, independent people and am not interested in drama, baggage and boring/lazy people.Be happy, confident,energetic and have a smile/laugh at the ready.Here is a quick story I had on one of my travels.I was living in Mexico in a wonderful small town about 45 minutes from Cabo on the Baja.(A great location, close enough to the insanity of Cabo but just far enough away!LOL) I was going to get a hair cut, yes even when I did have hair I prefered going with short/buzzed look. I went over to a house where my friend told me the local woman would "cut me"! I drove up to the house to find said woman in the yard with kids,dogs,laundry,dogs,food cooking on an outdoor fire,more dogs LOL and finally more kids!! She spoke very little english and I spoke very little Spanish but we managed! She motioned for me a drag a broken down chair from where it had been holding the corner of a table up(I grabbed a broken fence board to replace the chair!) I sat down and she placed a a small child on my lap,(she is chattering away the whole time in Spanish, I understand every 10th word!) She then begins to shave my head with an old style manual clipper thing that pulled more than it cut. I was now squirming more than the little one she had placed on my lap! She got fustrated with the whole affair and again motioned for me to stir the pot on the fire while she just left! Leaving me with a small child and toddlers and dogs!! 10 minutes later she appears still chattering away, sits me down, finishes with an antique pair of electric clippers!It has now been quite a fun adventure already, but when I try to pay her she says no, I must drive her brother,his wife and 3 kids to a small village in the mountains 20 miles away. OK, we jumped in my old "Mexico Car" drove/bumped our way for over an hour, got to the village, I then ate the best Tacos I have ever eaten, experienced the wonderful Mexican hospitality and made it back to town just before dark. Total time for Mexican haircut. 7 hours!This story probably tells more about me than anything I could try to write about myself. It is one of my favorite days!I am great traveller,a terrible tourist.I am very happy to be in Westbank and look forward to spending my days off there as I work, yup, in Fort McMurray.Don't be shy, life is short!Have Fun.As I am new to the West Kelowna area I might have to ask you where we could do an interactive wine tour and then enjoy some of the grape juice!!!

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