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To me Casual dating means meeting new friends. ...NOT casual flings !!!!!FYI -I do volunteer work at an animal rehabilitation center In Belize (mostly manatees and Monkeys!) The photos with animals are from the center...NOT tourist photo ops!!If you're looking for a ***suit and tie/downtown condo/drive a beamer kinda person....WRONG GUY!I do have an evolving career, but my work clothes are mostly quick dry and fleece, I live on my sailboat and drive a jeep! I'm not an outdoors nut/jock, but do enjoy camping year round, time at the beach, fishing at a little lake and of course time working on the boat (goes with the turf).I'm not a game player, and have been accused more than once of being "too nice", so it takes a while for people to really trust me, that's just who I am. I was a single dad for the a few years to 2 lovely girls. ....On my own now and time to get back to more things I enjoy. I'm a photographer and marine mammal naturalist by trade, a scuba diver by passion . I'm definitely looking for someone special to do things with, including walking, scuba diving and I'm learning to sail(no ego here if you know more than me on this one).. .http://youtu.be/OM5vLcwJmZ0 .....either above or below..... it's true!......K, If the average Canadian is a few pounds overweight then am I really a "few extra pounds" or just average? LOL .... I think the heading "favorites" sounds funny when you haven't even talked to someone..... my "favorite" list is more of a bookmark list of people I should write..."Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover." ~ Mark TwainPS. I seem to get more responses because of the damm whale pics then my pics! lol ... go figure!First meeting - kinda casual, coffee or tea and then maybe a walk too. Future times could be whale watching, kayaking/canoeing, even scuba diving........ but preferably doing something!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Atheist

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Paul

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    Man. 56 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 20-50

    Hi! My name is Paul. I am divorced protestant asian man without kids from Pembroke Pines, Florida, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

  • Andreas

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    Man. 62 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 52-72

    UPDATE Jan ***. Hmmph, seem to be going the wrong way here. Today's BMI 26.3 with 9 lbs to go (I blame Santa) I did achieve my goal in August, but it didn't last :-( Guess I'm on the rebound (no, not that one! Been single for yonks) Better focus on my intake strategy a bit more lol.UPDATE Feb ***In the interest of staying alive, I have lost nearly three stones over the last couple of years through careful calorie counting and a bit of excersise. Got my BMI down from 31.5 to 26! just a weeny bit further to go now. Hoping for a perfect (& somewhat more healthy than I was) BMI 24.5 quite soon :)UPDATE March ***. Those pesky last few pounds are the hardest to shift! Not sure if I'll ever get there. Today's BMI 25.7. Just 5 lbs to go.I have short black hair (oh allright then, balding, greying and shaved but it used to be black!). I am just a bit quirky, but in a nice way. I'm an avid non smoker and I can't tolerate being in a smoky room. I'm not ruling smokers out completely. But be warned as you would likely get lot's of very enthusiastic encouragement to quit :-) I'm deffo not a boozer, just an odd glass of Stella, Scotch or red wine now and again. I can take it or leave it. I am squeaky clean, quietish, VERY touchy feely, sensitive, honest and reliable. I have to admit that I can be a bit backwards at coming forwards initially, but am fine once I get to know someone (so maybe you'd better break the ice with that first message!). Whilst I love to see animals in the wild, I am not a great fan of household pets. So if your ethos is "love me love my dog", then sorry but I may not be your 'perfect' man. My negatives are probably procrastination and just sometimes, I worry a bit too much. I am the original Mr "what if" :***However, I'm aware of these defects & I do aspire to be a bit more happy go lucky about stuff generally. Heaven forbid I can even be a bit spontaneous when that rare mood really grabs me. I have been divorced for many years and am ok with that. I have had a few steady relationships since but find myself single again (as you do). I'm happy enough being my own boss but I do miss some nice feminine companionship and that unique feeling of 'togetherness'. I have slowly learned over the years that to try and give pleasure is way more satisfying than just taking it. I truly loathe arguments and whilst I can stand my ground when needs really must, I do try very hard to prevent them. Good communication is vital to me. I enjoy regular swimming, gentle walks. Some photography, a tiny bit of motorcycling, the internet and fresh air are my hobbies. I love gardens, but am no gardener, though I could possibly become a bit more interested if encouraged by my new lady friend. I don't mind mowing the grass now and again.I have literally zero interest in football, or pubbing with the lads etc. I would much prefer female company as just a one on one with that special person. Have to admit I am a bit of a home body too. I swim very regularly (2 times a week) to try and keep fit. I left the rat race a good while ago, so have some time available. I am quite into anything technical/scientific and am pretty good at fixing most things. I get a buzz from fixing stuff that would otherwise probably just end up in a landfill. I have a great grown up son ***who lives away. I prefer to dress quite casually but not scruffy and love to wear jeans mostly (well I was a 60's teenager - still am!). I can scrub up OK if the situation really dictates that I must. I hate it when people use abbreviated lazy textspeak everywhere as seems to be so popular. Keep that stuff on yer mobile eh? Why abbreviate when there is no need to? If you are curious to know a little more about me, please lets have a chat. No obligations either way.I can't answer this as it depends somewhat upon what you like too! Whatever we both feel 100% happy with would be good. Something simple and relaxing where we could chat easily. Maybe a stroll in the local park or meet for a coffee or similar.I think I would like to meet a girl who is perhaps a bit younger than me. I would probably prefer someone who enjoys the really simple everyday things in life. I would go wobbly at the knees for a nice feminine curvy yet reasonably trim woman:***I know, typical bloke lol). I don't think that's being shallow, just plain honest. I believe some physical attraction is important initially, but also compatible personalities are vital and the chemistry must be there too. Loyalty and trust (both ways) is essential to me. I believe both should have their own 'me time', interests etc. I don't crave a 'let's live together' relationship, at least not until we both knew with absolute certainty that it would really work. I prefer to meet someone nice & local. Ideally within a 5 mile radius but certainly no more than 15 miles max. If you got this far, thanks for reading all this waffle! Good luck with your fishing! Peter Xxx

  • Ahmed

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    Man. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 33-53

    Things to know about me:I am a Italian/Spanish funny, outgoing and honest to a fault. My ideal match is someone that can bust my chops and laugh along with me. An example would be watching me fall on some ice. Hopefully she would check to see if I hurt anything but then laugh.Traveling is one of my favorite things, in time I want to see all 50 states. I am interested in seeing what it means to be an American and see all the different states. I am looking to get back to Europe it's been awhile since I was there. It's important to stay active I manage and play on 2 volleyball team and hike whenever I get the chance. Being out and about is fun, I enjoy exploring Manhattan culture and restaurants. On occasion it is nice to have an evening at home with a home cooked meal, wine and a movie. I enjoy the beach and just watching the waves crash as it is so calming. Family is important to me, I have 3 sisters so treating a women with respect is something I learned early on in life. Life will always be challenging so enjoy the road. Things would be better with a co-pilot. Good luck in your search.A place that makes us both comfortable.

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