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About Me

Make no mistake, as I'm not perfect. I laugh, I cry, I dream, I desire. I'm me, accept it and allow me to be me. I'm looking for a partner with strong family values, a sense of humor and a sweet smile! Like to chat

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, they live with me

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Theodora

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    and I didn't think it would be online! I'm not so easy going; I'm stubborn and opinionated; I'm honest and loyal. I enjoy my family and friends. I'm not here to make new friends! I have plenty of guy friends! So I need someone who is secure and confident with himself. I would like to find that best friend! I'm here to meet the right person for me, who I can't wait to see after a long work day and look forward to spending my evening as well as the weekends with. I like someone who has kind eyes and a beautiful smile. Smiling often is key! I like a kind heart and a wonderful sense of humor. Joking at inappropriate times or putting someone down to make yourself feel better is not funny or humorous! Chivalry is not dead in my eyes! Mannerism are a plus! I love the beach during the summer and play co-ed softball. I workout about ***times a week. During the winter, I love skiing and hanging out by a fireplace and watching movies (romantic comedies). Autumn is for fairs and wine tastings. Spring is that wakeup call that screams warning .. bathingsuit season fast approaching! I enjoy reading, mostly romance novels.OMG! I go from ***in less than a day, so I realized that I should update the profile to include a bit more of what I'm looking for! I tend to date Italian men (being Portuguese I'd like to find someone that understands and respects European culture). He's got to at least own a suit for those special occasions. Being single and never married with no children, I'd prefer to date men that have a similiar status. I'm not looking for someone who has a 6 or 12 pack and prefers to spend a great deal of time looking into a mirror; a 2 or 4 pack is fine; however, I don't care for men who enjoy being a couch potato and look like one too! If you enjoy drinking beer, that's fine, it just doesn't need to be a sitting around the waist for nine months. (Didn't I mention I'm not easy going .. add vain too!) I have never dated and would prefer not to date men who are African American, Asian and/or Indian. I have dated and would prefer NOT to date men who like wearing hawaiian shirts, listen to Jimmy Buffet and smoke pot; those currently dating or in a relationship; those confused about his sexuality; those looking for something casual and/or a noncommital relationship (I can find those without being on this site!). If you have cheated .. Ciao! Adios! Thanks for taking the time to read .. but Good Bye and good luck! I have no tolerance for cowards. Also, if you live in a foreign country (i.e.); however, I thought that was implied when I mentioned seeing and spending time with someone on weekends and after work. I'm not interested in helping anyone get a greencard. If your photo is dated before ***, I'm thinking you have been on this site since then and/or look way different now and not remotely close to the pic! I thank those ***for your sweet comments, and even thou I have dated younger, I'd rather not date younger or way younger .. If your age indicates that you are 37 but you look 57 in your pic, I most likely will not be interested. I think that should be it for now. I'm sure that there will be more to come. Didn't think I would have to write a novel, but if this eliminates those douchebags and jerkoffs that I wouldn't give the time of day to, then so be it! Did I just take myself from 60 back to 0 ? probably! coffee aka "cawfee"; a quick drink, appetizer optional

  • Love

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I am a social and successful person looking for someone similiar that has a sense of humor and knows how to treat someone. I have an outgoing personality and enjoy doing just about anything with the right company. I don't have problems getting dates, but will admit I have had trouble finding quality guys who have real jobs, don't still live with their mothers or just got off probation. :) Just looking for someone that I have some things in common with and that I could possibly make a connection with.FYI- not trying to be rude, but if you are wanting me to send you new pics daily and/or want to send me pics of your body parts please keep looking!Also... If your profile says something like casual dating/no commitment or does not want children you are not what I am looking for.Life Is Too Short,Break The Rules, Forgive Quickly,Kiss Slowly, Love Truly,Laugh Uncontrollably,And Never Regret AnythingThat Made You Smile.Life May Not Be The PartyWe Hoped For,But While We're Here, We Should Dance.

  • Romana

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    .........WoW,...I have 2 think of a paragraph 2 sum "ME" up? .....IMPOSSIBLE, hahaha..*ONLY INTERESTED IN MEN LOOKING 4 A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP. If I was looking 4 casual dating or casual sex I could easily get that any day of the week but,.....I want 2 be IN LOVE more than anything in life. I WOULD WRITE MORE ABOUT MYSELF BUT, I WILL BE HONEST.....IM THE KIND OF PERSON THAT HAS 2 WRITE IT OUT ON PAPER 1st BEFORE I POST IT so I can let u know the best & worst of me & so u can decide whether or not 2 waste your time &/or mine. I've NEVER been taken on "a date".......however, I know that a DREAM DATE is highly unrealistic SO.... 2 be honest here: If your the kind of man that associates coming 2 MY house or me coming over 2 YOUR house, on our 1st date, DONT WASTE YOUR TIME W/ ME! Do us both a favor & keep on looking 4 some other woman that has no standards or morals. My son is grown & doesn't live here anymore BUT, I still have my daughter & she's only 12 & I do NOT & will NOT let ANY! man come 2 my home OR around my daughter UNTIL I've gotten 2 know u & I FEEL like your worthy of an invitation 2 my home!!Now, don't misunderstand me or think that I feel like I'm better than anyone or am the kind of woman that's gonna make a man stay off on the sidelines or jump through hoops 2 be worthy of me. I'm a complex (not COMPLICATED) woman & I have reasons 4 EVERYTHING I do & say.I've DREAMPT of going on my 1st date :-) ............the most AMAZING 1st date would have 2 be, not WHERE we go or WHAT we do & DEFINITELY not how much is spent (I'm NOT impressed by money BUT, you HAVE 2 HAVE A JOB, YOUR OWN VEHICLE, YOUR OWN PLACE 2 LIVE & TIME 2 SPEND W/ ME & ........(my daughter OR our kids, this includes if you have children, I expect the man IM INTERESTED IN 2 make his child or children just as much a part of this dating process as I would). BECAUSE.....if you want 2 get 2 know ME, you have 2 be 100% ready 2 be in a committed RELATIONSHIP that will more than likely have a wedding in the near future & we would all be family in the end anyways!*** I am NOT good at this kind of stuff but, I'm just being COMPLETELY HONEST so you know what your getting RIGHT UP FRONT before you waste BOTH OF OUR TIME!!!I just found out about about 5 weeks ago that, my 19 y.................IM GONNA BE A GiGi (grandma, Italian)

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