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Aiah, 32
United States, North Carolina, Newland

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About Me

keepin' it real since ***...playful, witty, smart, quirky... not your average... anything really. life fascinates me most of the time, particularly the natural world & the human mind. the playful side of me is easily amused, always laughing & enjoys little more than witty banter. the quirky side of me wants to constantly engage ideas, challenge thinking, indulge creativity & learn about anything/everything. on the occasion that my more introspective tendencies need a rest or redirection, i dig up some random mini-adventure and go out and play. some past favorites..... ellipses...my taste in music is pretty all over the place...; i love to play music as well, tinker around on a guitar or piano, wail on a trumpet, whatever i can learn. and then there's dance... i love movement with a flow to it. 90% of the time i'm totally awkward on a dance floor, but you break out with swing/lindy jazz/blues and i own it :).okay, my lofty goals & aspirations ---keep it real. never been into the world of conforming to arbitrary social norms. i don't fit in a box, and don't care to. i think people should be honest, responsible for themselves, and treat others with the same respect they expect to be treated with... apart from that, get on with your own real brand of you. the more distinctly you, the better.-find the beauty & breathe it in. it's everywhere. especially easy to find in this amazing landscape.-embrace the cosmic comedy. i love irony because it brings laughter to the otherwise 'erg'. nothing is good all the time, and if it was there would be no adventure. i don't live the tortured fairy tales others describe, i live a farce, and i love it.-see more of this big amazing world. my travels so far are mostly localized. i aspire to someday expand those horizons.-be flexible & share life. i think life has it's own current and to fight it is to struggle. our free will is rooted in our response to where that current takes us and what it brings to us. i aspire to not to struggle against where life takes me and what it brings, but rather to dance with the rhythm of life and share it with the people my life is blessed with.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Caribbean Chinese Korean Comedy Horror
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