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Payten, 31
United States, North Carolina, Newland

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About Me

Hello! There is so much to do here, and I have had so much fun exploring this city and getting the most from what it has to offer. I love going to baseball games, dancing, hiking, skiing (I tried snowboarding, I sucked...), trying new restaurants, and anything else that looks adventurous! I enjoy going to concerts and listen to new bands, but I'm in to normal music, not much of a indi-music kind of girl. I am 30 and have worked hard to get to where I am. I still have many goals for life, but I have already accomplished so many. I traveled to Europe for 3 months and explored 12 different countries. It was absolutely incredible, and an experience I will never forget. I hope to keep traveling in my life, so if you love to travel, that is a wonderful bonus! I want to someday own a house I can fix up and make my (our) own, with a yard for a dog or two (I'm not really a cat person), along with a family. I love a person that can make me laugh, make me think, and make me think outside the box. I will do the same, I promise. My favorite nights are spent cooking with friends (or my man!), drinking wine, and staying warm in this freezing weather.I'm trying this website cause I'm tired of dating boys from the bar. I'm ready for a man with a future. I hope that's you!Oh, and duuude-brah's and shirtless selfies need not message... A wonderful first date would be something creative, perhaps taking a cooking class together, or wine-tasting at a local restaurant. Followed up by a walk around the city, and perhaps a movie or a show to end the night. I just want to get to know you and who you are, so show me what you like to do! I'm open for everything, so show me what you got! :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Classical Latin Techno American Caribbean English Adult Animation Comedy Sci-Fi Cricket
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