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Normand, 40

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About Me

Sometimes life feels like a hamster wheel we keep running around in, but never get very far. Perhaps that is part of the journey or maybe it is what we are meant to do. Keep traveling in one direction without a destination. Let's not confuse my cynicism with all out negativity. Reality is simply the hard truth that requires acceptance and understanding. In my life, I've lived through good, bad, horrible, and indifferent times. All the while I've always maintained a decent comprehension of who I am. The strength to rise above adversity with my head high has molded a very strong willed person. There is not much I won't say when it's on my mind. Lost that filter years ago! hahaha My sense of humor (albeit a little quirky, twisted, raunchy, and sarcastic at times) has always kept me smiling through life. No matter what life threw at me a smile was present to not allow others to see what was on the inside. Contrary to my pictures smiling is part of my life. Don't judge me! hahahaha At times, my sense of humor allowed others to find their smile through difficult moments. A little bit of laughter goes a long way. My family (although dysfunctional), and close friends, are very important in my life. There is not a huge circle of friends, but there are a few that have been with me through a lot. My life is mostly centered around the simple things most *** over style. Quality over quantity. If the point has escaped you, I'm looking for simplicity and people who know what they want in this life. Not looking to be a stepping stone for those who have no clue. Neither am I looking for a hang out partner. I'm not a child but a grown man who knows full well what he wants. There was a time when serial dating was appropriate in my life. Been there and done that. Life isn't easy. Neither are real relationships. Everything we want takes work. Recent, and past events, have shown me that people who have addiction problems, of any kind, do not fit into my lifestyle. If we're able to love and respect ourselves, we'll be able share that with others. I'm looking for someone who wants something meaningful and lasting. A woman who's able to become my friend first and then go from there. Someone who is still able to see me for who I am during challenging times and able to laugh with me through them. Not someone who fails to see their partner beyond their own ego or past their nose. Laughter and fun are very important. Good, respectful people who understand each other truly are able to find fun in the most obscure places. People who live an active lifestyle fit in with how my life is lived. I'm at the gym ***times a week, eat healthy, and love to hike in spring and fall. Looking to find other physical activities that would keep me young and mobile. Anyone up for Yoga?? LOL. All in all.... just looking for someone who will treat me as I treat them. Respect, understanding, and acceptance. Say what you mean; Mean what you say; just don't say it mean. Thanks for reading. If you're interested, please feel free to send me an ***'m an open book for most questions.... May we all find the happiness we all deserve. :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Man. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 35-45

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  • Radley

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    Man. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 36-46

    I am looking to start dating again. I have been out of the game for awhile now and want to find a woman to spend time with. I am a movie buff, love different types of music and like to read. I also like bicycling and traveling. I can be sarcastic but can be sensitive to other peoples feelings. Anything else you want to know just ask!

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    Man. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 34-44

    The Bay Area is such a beautiful place with so many romantic spots...and these would be so much nicer, if I had somebody to explore them together with me.I like (in no specific order***being surrounded by electronics, although I do not possess a smart phone.- a glass of red wine or a good beer for dinner.- a road trip along the coast or through the mountains in a convertible.- watching my vacuum cleaning robot, it is somehow like a pet, but much less work.-..well at least I assume so, never tried up to now...the cuddling part, not the star gazing)- exploring the area and trying new restaurantsI like my work, so here some more or less work related jokes, a plus, if you can smile about them:"Fourth axiom of thermodynamics: Work goes there, where it will be done.""Everything is still unclear to me, but on a much higher level."And God said: "div E = rho/epsilon0, rot E = -dB/dt, div B = 0, rotB = epsilon0 d E/dt + j" ... and there was light."Big Bang Theory" reminds me of my university times, especially the first two seasons. I prefer to think of it as a meeting rather than a date ... Sorry, can't go to the cinema, because then I would be bored to death on the plane during business trips.

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