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Chandler, 38
United States, Mississippi, Jayess

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About Me

If you don't have a chance to read through the whole profile, no big deal. Here it is briefly = very hounest, loyal, courageous, responsible, spiritual & far to logical & absent minded for lying - looking for a smart and beautiful woman for dating to see where it might lead. I'm sapiosexual & a giver not a taker. I'm relatively physically fit and also looking for daily workout partners or hiking partners. Please send a message if you like what you see.Interesting statistics, food for thought.... Women receive an average of ***messages per week, men receive, on average, only 1 (slightly more if receiving a reply). My rate currently is only 1 message per month (including replies), not sure what that means but this hopeless romantic is not giving up. So ladies, ***to 1 odds in your favor....it's all your prerogative. self-summeryI am a poet, a filmmaker, a research engineer and radio DJ - in that order, nothing more, nothing less. Interested in more, read for yourself, just google, alan contino. I do a rockabilly, Psychobilly & Surf rock radio show each week - Mondays 4-6pm, 89.3fm- former "band geek", Euphonium soloist/concert performer- been to 23 states, 4 countries and planning on many more- former martial artist- very goofy when not in "work mode"- loves kids, been tutoring & teaching most of my life, though I don't have any kids of my ownwhat I'm doing with my life- freelance photographer for 25 years- Electrical engineer specializing in Visual & Audio electronics / effects- Part-time Professor, Chief of research laboratory - the VTLwhat's the first thing people notice about me?That I'm a 3rd generation greaser w/ big blue eyeswhat are the six things you could never do without?My eyes to learn from reading & marvel at beauty. My ears to hear other opinions and escape into musical expression. Pencil & paper, to write out my ideas and release emotion in poetry. Food. Clothing. Shelter.what do you spend a lot of time thinking about?Making it through to the next day. Photography. Music. Literature. Psychology.What are you looking for?- Girls who like guys- Ages ***Thin / Athletic / Petite / Average- potential jogging / workout / hiking partner-- for: new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, dance partner (just someone to experience adventures and new things with).People should message you if...?- if you're looking for good conversation or friendly chat- if you're interested in a quality person to hang out with- if you're interested in dating to see where it goes- if you feel you can keep up with me on a 20 mile hike- if you want a jogging partner to run with morning or evening, daily or weekly- if you want to go skydiving- if you want to go snow skiing Coffee? Drinks? Chance meeting in a book store...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electronic Reggae British South American
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