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Edan, 38
United States, Missouri, Grant City

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About Me

About me: I’m passionate. I wear my heart on my sleeve. I don’t give up on people or things, sometimes to my own detriment. I don’t weep through movies, but I definitely have a sensitive side. I love to laugh. If I’m going to see a movie or watch a TV show, it will most likely be a comedy. My sense of humor can be a little quirky, dry, and sarcastic. Don’t worry I’ll grow on you. I think one should never stop seeking self-improvement. Because of this, I’m in the prime of my life in every way right now. Education is important to me. I’m more educated than I look on paper. Life events out of my control (i.e. war), and indecision about my major are the reason I didn’t complete my Bachelor’s Degree yet. I’ll be going back soon. Despite this piece of unfinished business, I have established myself in a well-paying professional civilian career in the government surpassing many that hold a Masters. I have two children. More children are possible if the situation is right, but I’m satisfied with the two I have. Fitness and physical activity is important to me. I have abs, but don’t worry I’ve never taken a photo of them in a mirror and sent it to a woman. I eat healthy most of the time in the hope that I’ll have a good quality of life later on. On the weekends I indulge, and dining out is a favorite activity of mine. I love music. I listen to all kinds now, but I grew up on "alternative" and I still gravitate that way. My career in the Marine Corps Reserve recently came to end after 20 years (sort of- I can explain later). I’ve enjoyed the added free time having all of my weekends and summer back. I hope to continue to use this new found free time to golf more, take up mountain biking again, and maybe spending time with you enjoying some of your interests. I’m exhausted with dating websites, but I’m a responsible father of two with a career, and my social life got lost along the way. So other than stalking women in grocery stores and asking them contrived questions like “Have you tried this brand before?” I don’t know what else to do….About You: Happy, intelligent, lean (I work too hard on myself to settle), you take pride in your appearance, have at least some college, independent, interested in a long term relationship, financially stable, career minded, not a regular smoker (I can’t take the smell, I can deal with "occasional" The preceding list is in no particular order, and you need not match all to win ;-)Thanks for stopping in. I hope you find me interesting. If you think we might be a good fit don’t hesitate to reach out unless, you can identify with one of the following. If I don’t respond, it means I’m not interested.1. You’re currently in a bad relationship of some kind, and you’re on this website only to flirt and boost your ego.2. You’re only interested in a cyber-relationship. I’m not looking for a pen pal or texting buddy. Chemistry is something that can only be felt in person. 3. You’re over weight. Again, I’m not looking for perfection, but I’m continually watching what I eat and exercising to maintain myself. I think I deserve to be with someone who’s figured out how to manage their own weight. 4. If you don’t have a photo. What are you hiding? Let's meet for a drink or a coffee at first to see if there is any chemistry between us. We can do something more elaborate on later dates.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rap Reggae English German Sailing Watching Sports
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