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Abihu, 39

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About Me

How's it going? I’ve revised this thing a couple of times. I figure it’s only written for those of you who will read it, so here is me and what I’m looking for.1. My ideal woman would be someone who likes movies (sci-fi and action mostly), music, intellectual conversation, college football, hiking in the woods, road trips, concerts, video games and just hanging out at the house. She would like me flirting with her and texts just to see how she’s doing (and would return the favor) and occasional PDAs.2.! 3. Deal breakers. I’m a Christian and I go to church. Not going to try to force my faith on anybody but she has to be cool with me going to church. I have a 2 and a half year old son, so she must like little kids. No drugs. If you have a drink every now and then, fine. If you have to drink every day, no. If you have no respect for other people’s opinions, if your attitude of someone with a differing view point is “that’s just stupid”, then no.4. Personal. I’m a widower. My wife died unexpectedly a couple of years ago and left me with (at the time) a 7 month old baby. He’s 2 and half now. I am very close to my late wife’s family and it will be that way for a long time. Anyone I go out with will have to be cool with that. After my wife died I got very serious about my health. I lost a lot of weight last year. Not looking for an athlete or super model but it would be great to meet someone who is health concious and we could encourage each other in that.5. Not sure what else to say. If you have any questions, just drop me a line. I’d love to hear from you. Dinner and conversation. I think the first date should be about communication. Getting to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Omer

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    Man. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 35-45

    It's the Internet... Who knows if there is anything other than scams on the Internet. I don't want games, I don't want liars, and don't want cheaters!!! Divorced someone who did all that and went back to her ex. It's all about bringing money into the state.I was raised with morals. I believe a lady should be treated like a lady! I open doors, say things like yes ma'am. It's the way I was raised. I prefer red dirt country, but also like 80's rock. But I'll listen to it if it sounds good. I'm pretty laid back. Don't care much for bars anymore.when a girl misses youBody: When you catch a girlglancing at you,she wants you to lookback and smileWhen a girl bumps into your armwhile walking with youshe wantsyou to hold her handWhen she wants a hugshe will just stand thereWhen u break a girls heartshe still feels it whenyou run into each other 3 years laterWhen a girl is quiet,millions of things are running through hermindWhen a girl is not arguing,she is thinking deeplyWhen a girl looks at you with eyes full ofquestions,she is wondering how long you will bearoundWhen a girl answers, "I'm fine," after afew seconds,she is not at all fineWhen a girl stares at you,she is wondering why you are playing games!!!!!!!!!!!When a girl lays her head on your chest,she is wishing for you to be hers foreverWhen a girl says she can't livewithout you,she has made up her mind that you areher futureWhen a girl says, "I miss you,"no one in this world can miss you morethan thatWhen a girl is mean to you after a break-upshe wants you back, but shesscared she'll get hurt and knowsyou're gone foreverGuy Facts:When a guy calls you,he wants to be with youWhen a guy is quiet,He's listening to you...When a guy is not arguing,He realizes he's wrongWhen a guy says, "I'm fine." after a fewminuteshe means itWhen a guy stares at you,he wishes you would care about him andwonders if you doWhen your laying your head on a guy'schest,he has the worldWhen a guy calls/texts/comments you everyday,he is in loveWhen a (good) guy tells you he loves you,he means itWhen a guy says he can't live without you,he's with you til your doneWhen a guy says, "I miss you,"he misses you more than you could haveever missed him or anything else "It is easy to hate and it is difficult to love. This is how the whole scheme of things works. All good things are difficult to achieve; and bad things are very easy to get."- Confucius

  • Braiden

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    Man. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 33-43

    Picking up a girl at the bar isn't really my thing. I'm very talkative but a little shy unless I know you. Hoping to find someone that is fun to hang out with, wants to explore the world and can have an intelligent conversation about more than 3 things. Mix in some attractiveness and a little chemistry and I'm in. I've tried the long-winded, sarcastic, joke-filled manifesto style profile but now I'm going to join the herd (something that is not easy for me to do) and keep it simple. I live in the Gaslamp and in my spare time you'll usually find me hiking, playing softball/baseball, running those damn Convention Center steps or hopefully catching some live music or a game. I keep in shape but I'm not a health zealot. It would be sweet to find someone somewhat active. A great day would be a day hike or something active, followed by an evening bite at some local spot and finish it off with a glass of wine while people watching. If your friends describe you as quick witted, then we may have fun together. I like to joke around and hope to find someone that can have a spirited conversation. I'm aware of the Kardashians and have even watched the show but if you are "inspired" by them, please move along. Please...So, drop me a line. Never know. Maybe we'll have a connection...Matt Best case scenario: we meet up and end up closing down a joint because the conversation is interesting.

  • Jericho

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    Man. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 35-45

    Lets see..... I'm 37, tall, and not too bad looking! lol. I have been single for 4 years (by choice) and am ready to find someone again. I am generally laid back and tend to just go with the flow in social settings. In work settings, I am very ambitious and seem to always be the guy everyone goes to for answers. Pretty much every thing I want except the most important thing.....someone to share it with. In my off time, I enjoy dirt bikes and 4-.....anything really. I also enjoy cooking.....yes, cooking.... movies, music, etc. I play guitar and sing in a local band, though we have been on an "extended vacation" for some time now.As for the person I would like to find..... Someone easy going, likes to laugh and play around....doesn't take life too seriously. I want someone looking for a real commitment and doesn't keep their feelings bottled up inside. Communication is an absolute must! Someone that knows how to disagree without screaming and saying hurtful things. Someone who isn't ashamed of who they are, both inside and out. Also, someone who isn't afraid to get down and dirty in the mud. I work hard, and I play hard. I guess I am looking for a girly-girl and a tom boy all in one. lol Anything from dinner to fishing....Looking at the stars exploring the meaning of life. Hanging out by a bonfire. I'm up for pretty much anything.....

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