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About Me

Don't judge a book by its cover... read a few pages... you'll be pleasantly surprised..."I am not my job... I'm not how much money I have in the bank... I'm not the car I drive... I'm not the contents of my wallet...I'm not my effing khakis!"-bonus point if you know what the above quote is from!I'm a pretty outgoing, positive, and friendly person. I like to surround myself with similar individuals. I'm also a goofball that can find humor in just about anything, but can still contribute to an intelligent conversation and put on a serious face when needed. I always try to see the good in people and situations. There's always something to be learned from every experience!! Life is too short to dwell on negativity!!I consider myself fairly well educated and am always striving to learn and experience new things, yet I also try to take the the time to enjoy the little things in life. I've grown up and spent most of my life in southern CA, but have had the opportunity to do some traveling and am definitely looking forward to doing some more in the future.I'm looking for a partner in crime... someone I can build a true friendship with, enjoy life and explore whatever avenues that leads us down. Feel free to drop by and say hi.. don't worry... I wont bite... hard... =) ****And if you do decide to say hi please have more to say than just "hi"... ***word conversations can get boring really quick!*********aaaaand I love how the majority of you don't even read the above... awesome!p.s. Please know the difference between your and you're / two, too, and to / their, there, and they're / here and hear, etc... it's not asking much... thanks...p.p.s. Just because this thing says I'm "online" doesn't necessarily mean I'm actually online... no need to get angry if I don't respond right away... "I apologize to you if I don't seem real eager to jump into a forced awkward intimate situation that people like to call dating. I don't like the feeling. You're sitting there, you're wondering do I have food on my face, am I eating, am I talking too much, are they talking enough, am I interested I'm not really interested, should I play like I'm interested but I'm not that interested but I think she might be interested but do I want to be interested but now she's not interested? So all of the sudden I'm getting, I'm starting to get interested... and when am I supposed to kiss her? Do i have to wait for the door cause then it's awkward, it's like well goodnight. Do you do like that ass-out hug? Where you like, you hug each other like this and your ass sticks out cause you're trying not to get too close or do you just go right in and kiss them on the lips or don't kiss them at all? It's very difficult trying to read the situation. And all the while you're just really wondering are we gonna get hopped up enough to make some bad decisions? Perhaps play a little game called "just the tip". Just for a second, just to see how it feels. Or, ouch, ouch you're on my hair."-that one's worth double bonus points! ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Alex

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    Man. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 33-43

    UPDATE: I have decided the only way I am going to talk to someone here is if they are willing to text/talk. I am interested in getting to know someone and in order to do that you have to be able to communicate in a more personal way. Also there are so many people on here who are fake or hiding things that...it seems to be the only way to verify if a person is who they say they are. I am a very open and honest person as you can see by my profile and expect the same from someone else. A coupe of short messages is fine...but I don't want to exchange ***messages here and have a conversation that lasts 2 months lol. So...please be willing to do that.Also I do require patience and understanding. I am not happy about the situation I am currently in(seizures and anxiety)but...it is what it is. I have learned to accept it and that there is nothing I can do about it right now. I only want to meet ladies who are not shallow and willing to see past that...to the great guy I am. I have a good heart and I am a great guy but..you can't message me and expect me to change all at once. I want to meet someone that is willing to take the journey with me back to a normal life. I promise whoever takes that chance will be very happy they did. Patience is a virtue and some on here clearly don't have it. Which is fine but...if you don't then you're probably wasting time messaging me. If you are still interested a lot about me is below....I am looking for two things here. One I would like to make some new friends and two....I would maybe like to find that special someone. I figure why not be different and give it a try. Now let's start with me and the things you should know about me and my situation. I do face some life challenges right now but....I am very optimistic and I am who I am. I can't change some of these things but then again...I have learned that I deserve to be loved for me and all of me. So...here is a little about me.I am currently tired of the dating scene and what it has to offer...I know some of you women can relate to this lol. I get overlooked quite a bit because I am not a bad boy or I am not just looking to hook up. I also get overlooked because of the challenges I mentioned earlier. I have a seizure disorder...and yes it is a big headache!! I have to have my medications adjusted constantly and even switched from time to time so...I don't flop like a fish lol. I currently can't drive and yes...that is a big turnoff when it comes to women. I can understand that...but in my case I can't help it. This is not permanent(the driving thing)but it is where I am at right now. So you would have to drive or meet me somewhere if we hit it off. Besides do you really want me driving down the road flopping and going in and out of traffic at 100mph lol??? I also have a bit of an anxiety issue. It started with my seizures but also runs in my family. I struggle with it from time to time but again....It doesn't define me as a person. So...if you have read the bad parts and are still reading lol...you get to read the part about who I am as a guy.I am old fashioned,caring,loving,affectionate,a best friend,a shoulder to cry on,a good listener,honest,trustworthy and basically the exact opposite of most guys these days. I am not going to lie and say I never think about sex...who doesn't? I just don't believe it's the number one priority in making female friends or that special someone. I love hugs for example...nothing makes you feel loved or more warm than a hug from someone you care about. I love all the little things in relationships that are gone now it seems....holding hands,kissing,cuddling,going for walks together and just loving the fact that I am with someone I care about. Without those things all you have is sex and as good as it may be at the time...it is not love and I am looking for something much deeper than sex. I have been called by my friends a "goody goody" lol....and maybe I am...but I'm proud of who I am. I am an open book and will answer any question with honesty even if you run off after hearing the answer. My reason is simple...honesty is really the best policy. I want someone to like the real me and not someone I pretend to be. Plus months down the road a person will find out you have lied...it all catches up to you eventually and then...something so beautiful can be ruined in a one minute span.At some point I do like to exchange numbers and text/talk on the phone. It is more personal and easier to answer questions that way. Plus you get a more real feeling about the person. When I was growing up talking was the only way. I miss a good old fashioned phone call...where you get the goose bumps and just get to know one another. You can tell so much more about someone when you are actually engaged in a conversation with them. So...in this technology age....go back in time with me :)I'll even give you a secret of mine lol..and it's very dark!! So...as you can see I will admit just about anything lol. Now thousands of people know I watched that show :)For you ladies thinking...should I really message this guy lol?? The answer is YES!! I promise in some form or fashion we will click. Whether as friends or something more...you can't go wrong with me. That is about as confident as I get by the way haha. I really hope to meet some nice ladies and like I said maybe the one! So...have a great day and again thanks for reading my ad :) I don't do well with really busy or crowded scenes right now. I would like to do something quiet that would allow us to get to know one another better...without pressure. I think that after TALKING lol...we could come up with a nice first date. I understand that a lot of women prefer a public place for a first date or meeting. I can do that,..just don't drag me to a concert with 50,***people right off the bat haha.

  • Jean

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    Man. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 34-44

    I love football, pretty much all sports. Love the beach, grilling.... playing games...working hard, plus many other things. Would like to meet an interesting someone to share all the funs with.

  • Rezzy

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    Man. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 18-19

    Hi! My name is Rezzy. I am never married catholic african man without kids from Glendale Luke Afb, Arizona, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

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