SIMILAR PEOPLE
on 377 reviews
-
AlpinOnline
Man. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: woman. In age: 37-47
Well let me see I am a pretty easy going guy going through some rough times. And I always look at meeting someone new as a friend and you never know what goes from there. I like Sci-fi and horror and "NO" i do not cheat. I guess I'm old fashioned like that. I want it to be known that I am not looking for a one night stand that is not why I am here. I have met a couple of people on here that it did not work out with, but I made great new friends who I keep in touch with. I am currently looking to better my life and move in a direction that I can grow and learn life's experiences. I do believe in Love-at-first-sight, chivalry is not dead as long as I am on this earth. I think you can still kiss a woman on the hand to show affectionAll in all I still do a lot of things that would be considered mushy or cheesy, but i can't help it. i am what I am. Hmmm I would basically talk to a person and see if there is some kind of connection right off. Find out the dos and don'ts of the whole evening. I want to be able to make her laugh and feel comfortable around me like a buddy.
-
BartletOnline
Man. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: woman. In age: 37-47
Bring on the fun! You can never have too many good friends or too much laughter in life! Love truly, dream big, break the rules, kiss slowly, forgive quickly, laugh uncontrollably; and never regret anything that made you smile or made you hurt. You learn from both. I accept the idea that fate, destiny and luck are all parts of the equation in finding the right partner, but even fate can use a little help now and then, so we'll give this a shot.Here's my pitch: I’m a fun, intelligent, adventurous, artistic, affectionate, positive, easy-going, and down-to-earth guy who doesn’t take himself too seriously. I’m an outstanding communicator and my healthy sense of humor and playfulness is the not-so-secret key to my happiness and well-being. Creativity is my life’s breath and my passion. Being actively creative is how I achieve my truest and deepest fulfillment. I’m always up for a good time, I love to laugh and I’m easily amused and entertained. I’m very sociable, outgoing, and I tend to make friends easily. I'm of Irish heritage and was raised half mid-western and half southern, so that tends to produce an interesting combination of subtle accents after enjoying a few beers. I’m a sarcastic optimist and a realistic dreamer. I definitely feel most alive when I’m working on artistic and inspiring projects and ideas, so my inventive imagination serves me well. I have more useless knowledge in my head than should be legally allowed. My family and friends are extremely important to me and I would lasso the moon for their happiness. I am completely loyal, honest and honorable in my relationships and I’m very confident and secure with who I am as a person. I’m ambitious and I have many goals that I’m striving to achieve and sometimes it can be an uphill climb, but believing in yourself and liking who you are as a person certainly makes life a little easier. We’re all just looking to find our own piece/peace of happiness after all. I’m an actor/writer/graphic designer and I’m also the president and artistic director of a new theatre company. My creativity and imagination truly do keep me young and my job reflects that. I’m really just a big ol’ kid at heart. I perceive myself as a very young version of ***and my friends would agree). That number sounds really old to me, to be totally honest, so I’m really not your typical forty year-old. My mentality is probably quite a bit younger than that number. I’m not implying that my maturity and my sense of being a responsible adult aren’t fully developed (they are); but my state of mind, attitude, personality and lifestyle are not what I’d imagined forty would be like when I was a kid. I actually had a much rougher time turning thirty than I did forty. Other than acquiring a few more scratches and dents, I feel younger now than I did back then, so that keeps me smiling. I keep reading trending articles that say women now view divorced men as being more desirable and in-demand these days. That makes a lot of sense. Being divorced doesn’t mean that I’m damaged goods. On the contrary; it means that I’m damn good at handling anything life may unexpectedly throw at me. It doesn’t mean that I’m broken; it means that I’m already comfortably broken in. I’m experienced, I’m emotionally mature and evolved, and I’ve proven my ability and desire to commit, be a partner, and to share a life. I earned my scars and my badge of honor and I pulled myself back up onto my feet with my head held high. I’ve become stronger and wiser and even more compassionate and insightful (and very grateful and thankful for the people that truly do matter in life); and through it all, I’m still a believer. That’s something to be proud of.So, now that you know a bit about me, here’s what I find attractive and admirable in a woman: an intelligent and an inquisitive mind, a warm and witty sense of humor; an appreciation of the fun and happiness in the little things that matter, as well as the big stuff; a positive and hopeful outlook on life (you don’t have to dance on candy-colored clouds every second of every day, but perpetual mood killers are not my style. However, I’ There’s got to be a healthy balance), an appreciation of the arts and culture (I admit that I have an unusual career that doesn’t always make sense to everybody all of the time. You definitely don’t need to totally understand this way of life, but you’d have to totally appreciate that it’s what I do for a living. I’m good at it and I love it, so if you don’t accept that, then we would not be a great fit to begin with), affectionate and loving (I’m a big hugger and a kisser, not in a smothering way, but in a healthy and sweet-natured way), the ability to enjoy a bar and a drink or two on occasion (I don’t mean that you have to slam a whole keg of beer with Charlie Sheen and swing from the ceiling rafters every night with your hair on fire, but the peaceful enjoyment and relaxation of a beer or a glass of wine, or whatever you happen to drink, is a simple pleasure for me), sassy and playful banter and intellectual debate, a tender and kind heart, a healthy sense of self and identity, compassionate and nurturing ***, a steady moral compass and good values and principles, emotionally available and relationship oriented, genuine and honest, an assertive and forthcoming nature, a social personality as well as enjoying a peaceful night in with wine and movies; non-pretentiousness; and please: no drama-queens (I despise self-created/inflicted emotional drama and punishment, playing unnecessary mind games, walking on eggshells, hypocrites, and silent treatments).Honestly, I don’t have any miraculous expectations by being on this site, but if the stars align just right and we catch lightning in a bottle, then that’d be a great surprise and we’ll take that ride together, whether that leads to friendship, romance, or just a good story to tell. I love meeting new people and making friends, so I welcome any new challenges, journeys and adventures! A first date does kind of feel like a job interview to me, and I’m not a huge fan of the whole initial “dating process”, but it’s worth taking the chance because I’m truly at my best when I’m in a healthy, happy, and committed relationship (and I’m a damn good boyfriend/partner/best friend, too). I’ve been out of the loop for a while, but I’m up for the challenge and I’m determined to make it fun for us both.
-
DardenOnline
Man. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: woman. In age: 35-45
I'm guess that I'm losing faith and I'm not sure if this site is working for me or not, but I'll keep it running for a while anyway.I'm really, looking for the right woman, a goal oriented, independent career woman with her own life and social group is perfect fit for me! She must care about her health, because if someone is unable to take care of themselves physically, theirs no chance of them being emotionally healthy either.I am a romantic (possibly hopeless) guy, that is looking for the one woman that I absolutely cannot live without, and who cannot live without me! As an artist, photographer, graphic designer, web designer, illustrator, animator, sculptor, painter, actor, singer, dancer, owner of multiple businesses, debater, and obviously a crazy multi-tasker I can keep you entertained!I love dining out, and trying new restaurants, and anyone I date should be willing to at least try new cuisines. I love to travel, and if I could afford it that's all I would do, all the time!!! I'm ex-military and have traveled the world, and have been to over 14 countries. I am a non-smoker, (quit almost 8 months ago) drink occasionally and I do love to socialize and this is predominantly when I do drink. I’m divorced with no children (I may want children in future, if it is in the cards). I have remained good friends with my ex-wife, (no worries she lives on the other side of the planet), and I prefer a drama-free relationship. I’m a confident, self assured guy that knows who he is, and I’m an open book, and will share anything about my life or past that you want to know, and am looking for someone who is the same. (I can’t stand liars or cryptic people, if you cannot be straight-forward & honest with me, keep moving, because a lie of omission is still a lie in my book.) Like I said above, I enjoy socializing, dancing, singing (karaoke or open mic), fishing, swimming, gardening, biking and just hanging out on the patio during the summer & I love to grill out and entertaining friends. I know with the dating pool out their that I am more likely to date someone with children, and I am open to that because I love kids, (I'm a big kid at heart!), just as long as there's not a bunch of drama with their daddy. ;) I am a very talkative guy and have a diverse knowledge-base, and can usually hold my own in almost any conversation on almost any subject.If you think you’d like to get to know me, send me message, and maybe we can connect! Well a first date can be so many things! Going for a glass of wine, or coffee, we could go window shopping, dinner and a movie, drinks and dancing, or picnic at the park... lol, the big thing is enjoying each others company, the rest is just location and activities!!Now don't get me wrong, I'm a hopeless romantic, and LOVE planning intimate and romantic dates, but a 1st date here, is gauging whether on not we're going to click! If we do click... watch out baby, the second date may knock your socks off!!!;)