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Shimei, 39

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About Me

Just looking for sum1 fun and interesting to get to know! I'm self-employed(i build custom homes),single father of 2 boys. I work alot of hours and havent gotten to spend alot of time on my personal life. I sure miss dating and going out! I HATE GAMES and LIES! I consider myself a brutaly honest person and well... I do not tolerate BS! if you like the sound of that, well give a shout back...if not...... Can't go wrong with a nice dinner some drinks and conversation to get to know a bit about each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Man. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

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    Looking for: woman. In age: 35-45

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    Man. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 33-43

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