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Jeduthun, 38
United States, West Virginia, Clay

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Everyday I wake up in the perfect bed in the perfect house and drive the perfect car to the perfect job. perfect is always subjective but you know what i mean. So far this site has been an exercise in ridiculousness. I am 38 and tired of people with changing personalities. I am looking for a person who is who she is right out of the gate. If your looking for someone to take you to clubs and bars move along. I might get down but i do NOT dance. I embrace all things chill. I'm not a neat freak but i keep a tidy home and can't relax if there is clutter. I enjoy making home improvements and going to garage sales, thrift stores looking for cool shit. I am a highly accomplished art school drop out so i spend alot of my time " trying " to be creative. I respect all forms of music but favor bands such as meshuggah, gojira, the red chord, and static x. At the same time i enjoy music from the 30's and 40's. I've never been much of a drinker but a couple of times a year I do it and believe me I do it right. I don't care for bars in the least but do find myself drug to a few here and there. I play guitar in a band but don't hold that against me as i find it to be more rewarding then having a bowling night. In alot of ways I would describe myself as your typical former stoner who decided things are more important and in my opinion have done very well with my life as i am grateful for how things have turned out. I would like to find a good woman who has a sense of dedication, appreciation for the benefits of a healthy relationship, and wants a true partnership as a companion and best friend. i have played the games with the girls who say they want these things and turn out to be party girls who have to get drunk every weekend and settle with their lives being barely enough to survive. Is there anyone out there who wants the nice place in the country, two nice vehicles in the drive freshly washed, kids playing in the yard and a secure future. the life our grand parents enjoyed. maybe I'm naive, but thats ok. it's warm in this bubble. It saddens me that they can't be a part of our every day but such is life. being with someone with children is always a delicate situation starting out. but if done correctly can be a very rewarding thing in itself. And speaking from experience the hardest part of it all is that if the relationship comes to an end you do miss those kids from the past relationship as life goes on. It's all a very bittersweet outcome. Oh yeah and one more thing. If you can't be my friend above all else forget about it. I promise i am the chillest person you will ever meet and i like to think i approach every situation with a cool head, logic and reason. I am a product of the 90's and in many ways will come across sarcastic and harsh as I refuse to tell you what you want to hear as opposed to the real truth. but i assure you that all ( **stardry ) is given with a smile. I am your not so typical - typical male. the more wrong something is the funnier USUALLY. I love a good random imagination out of people, as these things keep our lives unique. I like to think i am still influenceable to the right people and situation because who wants to be the EXACT same person for the rest of their life? lets continue to grow in who we are and be better people for it. heres the blah blah blah I don't dig sports. this includes pretty much anything you can think of. better things to spend my time doing. i don't fish because, well i mean come on really, phhht. I'm not going hunting i don't care what you say....... more to come as i think of it. Although camping is the best! going places out of state or whatever is always fun. i have been to most states and love it out west. campfires with friends and cool strangers. thats what I'm talking about! !. caring 2. honest 3. respectful 4. emotionaly avalible 5. passionate 6. funny damnit! 7.even tempered 8. cheerful 9. and now with 25% less calories And if you act in the next 15 minutes you'll get this commemorative alarm clock. operators are standing by. Well i think the fun of talking to a person a few times will bring out whats called for on that first date. there is always the good old sand by of dinner and a movie. but things can get creative.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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