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Alven, 38
United States, Indiana, Borden

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About Me

Taking a break from Law Studies to create my own business, I still assist in legal projects but am focusing on other projects as well.I'm comfortable with myself, enjoy laughing and just really being down to Earth. I enjoy having fun but never at another's expense. I feel like I have out grown a lot of silliness that some men never do, so if silliness is what you prefer, then I'm not the right person to contact. If however you are sincere and mature, then I'm willing to talk. I'm open to friendship to get to know each other but have no intentions of casual intimacy. I'm about personalities meshing and then seeing what happens next. I'm pretty open minded and willing to listen first without casting judgment on anyone. I'm a firm believer that everyone has a story worth telling. I deal with a lot of difficult subjects that may occur in a person's life, so simply, "life happens", I am not gonna judge. I am multifaceted and have several interests, so it is not difficult to find things to talk about or to locate common ground. My mind us open as to what happens next in my romantic life. I do not need or desire to rush into a serious relationship, but if Ms Right appears, I will treat her accordingly. :) Typically when I date, I only "date" one person at a time, even if it isn't a "relationship" its just my preference but I do have friends from just about any group, gender, race, sexual orientation, political persuasion, etc...so I hang out with a diverse group of people...don't know why that is an issue to some people, but I have discovered that it is, if so, I'm probably not someone to contact.Also, Sorry, but I will not respond to people without a photo. Ive posted several of mine and Im camera shy, if I can show, so can you. Thank You. :)If I sound like I may be interesting, dont be shy, drop a line, and I will try to respond to you as soon as I can. :) I think a first date should be simple. A lot of people believe that you have to impress someone with where you go or how you act. I believe a good first date should be somewhere quiet and low key. A walk in the park, a picnic, a tour of a museum or land mark; somewhere where the focus is not on the setting but on the conversation with each other, that doesn't require the nerves or the walking on eggshells that a more formal first date usually entails. A first date should be relaxed, just two people comfortable being themselves so that they can say and ask what they choose.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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