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Jamal, 38
United States, Connecticut, Harwinton

Offline, last seen Mon, 29 Jun 2026 22:38:35

About Me

First of all - my pictures are current. My main picture was just this summer. The other 2 are last year.Would like to meet someone I can enjoy spending time with, even if as friends or just be able to talk.I guess I am not so timid anymore, but can still be shy at times..I am looking for long term relationships, but I get stuck in the "friend zone." People say I am great and wonderful and make them smile and I am a great friend, but no spark. Yay me... Not.I realize that despite what may be said - "one size does not fit all." No that is not a sexual innuendo. I am overweight, and I know that. I am taking steps to lose that weight. And my thanks to someone here for pointing something out - don't t mean to sound fat-phobic. I have been this weight for a while now, and it is less about the weight now then it used to be. it is now more about being fit and my health. But as an update I lost 17 lbs this ***Winnipeg Summer!!!I’m trying to be happy mostly. Repairing myself and trying to be healthier. Reading and writing more, swimming more.Trying to be positive. I’m really good at listening. Being a good friend. Being passionate. Massages.The first things people usually notice about me would be personality and weight.I read, listen and watch a lot of everything. Like photography when I get the chance. Looking into doing vlogging. History or anything based or similar to actual events is something I like.;Shakespeare" times. I am a geek who loves superheroes. I am trying to write fan fiction regarding that. Yes I have played D&D before. TV: Big Bang Theory, 2 Broke Girls. Elementary, Game of Thrones, Walking Dead..Movies: If it was based on a comic book, history (see above), or a novel I have read, I will see it. Even if it is a terrible movie. I always try to get the source material for a movie I have watched to read - I like how people adapt the same story. And vice versa - if there is a novelization of a movie I will read that too.; Shakespeare.Food: Not a fan of really spicy. Or onions.Now I may not be anyone's top catch of the day, but I am also not dumb. Coffee/tea and talk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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