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Brutus, 39

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About Me

I'm a mad passionate man about everything I do. I love cooking, racing in triathlons, going to the movies, reading and hanging out with my two boys 12 and 16. They are my best friends, and mean the world to me. I'm a grown man and not into "clubbing" so if your one that likes to sit in any sort of VIP section or pay for overpriced drinks behind a rope in a club I'm not your man. I'm looking for someone to hang out with, cook for and hopefully grow into a relationship. I eat healthy and like to live a healthy lifestyle. I don't drink anymore ( if there was a medal in drinking I won the gold at one time) but don't care if you do. Its just everything I've done stupid in my life is when I was drunk...so god forbid I think I'm growing up. I promise I'm not crazy, short, chubby, I don't own a Star Wars toy collection or live with my parents. I'm a mans man and no metro boy here, so you will not see me in designer jeans, shiny belt buckles, shirts with beads on them or anything that says Affliction on it. I'm looking for someone laid back, and someone who can make me laugh. Good luck in your search........And for the love of god stop doing the self-pic, held up above your head at a 45 degree angle....What is that?????? and why????? Just curious....Matthew Cook, dance in the kitchen, Geek out.....And just be ourselves

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Buddhist

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Carlisle

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    Man. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 34-44

    I am a bit shy at first, but once I get comfortable around you I am very friendly and talkative. I have a broad range of interests, read quite a bit, and am a good conversationalist. Right now I want to test the waters, get out and meet some new people and hopefully find that special someone who I click with. I am bit of a social chameleon, I am interested in just about everything and I can fit in just about anywhere, but I am most comfortable around geeky quirky people. I've always found the simple things in life the most satisfying. What I really want is companionship, someone to share my day to day experiences and to cuddle up with at the end of the day. Eventually I want to settle down and raise a family, but for now I would like to enjoy life and have fun until I find that missing piece that completes me.If you are interested in getting to know me, shoot me a message. I'm thinking dinner and drinks on a deck somewhere quiet and comfortable. Maybe a nice walk through the park afterwards and see where it goes from there.

  • Adlai

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    Man. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 36-46

    I am an honest hard working guy who is seeking the same type of woman. I have a great sense of humour, and read and learn avidly. I would be interested in something long term with the right type of woman. If you are the type that takes care of yourself reasonably well then thats half of it right there. Attraction is everything to build something meaningful. Music: pretty much what boyceavenue has covered as they are it. Go on youtube and see the amazing covers they do. what they cover is what I like. I also like disturbed a great deal. Im all over the place. really old wierd country music is only thing I can say I exclude. If Im with a bunch of hillbillies and having shine my opionion might change!! love to cook. I am not a lazy slob and do my part always ;). I have a 9 yr old son who lives out of town so I only get to see him every second weekend. If you have kids I think thats great and would like to be part of their lives and do fun things with you and them. Even better if my son can join you in those things. Hoping to hear from you!! If I meet that great woman who wants kids im open...If you have no pic don't bother as zero interest. you need to be entirely open as I am willing to be. Im looking for a partner, and best friend, because I believe in that, Meet and greet. If we click then we begin to date. I dont play games, plain and simple. I have learned life experiences about that.

  • Dee

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    Man. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 35-45

    I'm just getting out of a 8 year relationship and I have two Beautiful daughters...Bella who is 5 years old and Julianna who is 2 years old. It just didn't work and I felt I put so much into the relationship and she was always about herself. That's not what I'm looking for. I want to meet someone who knows how to share. I love sports, music, parks, the beach, taking the kids on rides...pretty much anything. Anyway. I'm not into myself, I'm pretty outgoing and funny. I love taking my daughter's to the park running around playing with them during the day ,and when I get to lay with them and put them to sleep. It feels so great knowing that someone is so confortable in your arms that they can fall right to sleep. But that's another story.I'm not looking to jump into anything right away, having fun and getting to know someone is very important for me and my two little girls. I'm here just giving this a chance. PS. Please, I don't and am not looking for any head cases.. I've had 8 years worht of that .. I just want to see if there is someone out there for me. Time will tell, talk to you soon.*** Update *** *** Update *** *** Update ***is it that hard to find someone real out there. I see so many people say I want this and I want that in my life and when it's right in front of them, they don't do anything about it. I'm looking for someone who is real, not fake, not a one night stand.... Someone who wants what I want, to be happy and have a great time. If thats you, send a message or reply. if not please don't waste my time. My time might not be important to you, but it's important to myself and my little girls. On a frist date, Well that depends on who it's with. everyone is different and they have different likes and dislikes. But the one thing I know i would do no matter what is have a good time , be funny and get to know the person. Talking is really the most important thing you can do on a first date. I would love to listen to what someone has to really say about herself and what goes on in her life also. In general, just go out and have a great time no matter time or place.

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