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Jemmy, 39
United States, Louisiana, Paulina

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About Me

I'm completely new at this. Been divorced about 10 months now. Have two great kids that live with me part time. I am convinced that there are beautiful women out there that actually believe nice guys are worth trying to date!I love having a quiet evening with a great person, cooking on the grill, or dinner and a movie. Of course, anything LSU is a plus. Baseball in the gold seats or out in the bleachers, either is great. Really not that complicated a person. I work too much and have used that to fill my time during the weeks I don't have my kids, so haven't really hit the dating scene. One of my friends has been on me to try this so here I am.I believe in treating a woman with respect. Little things like opening the door, small texts about your day. I want to feel valued, so why wouldn't I treat a woman the same? All I ask is you be real. In turn I will be the same. Not pretentious, not fake. If it works out great, if not, I hope the experience makes it worth the effort.Perfect people need not apply...perfection in a person is just a myth, but a relationship makes the flaws not so big of a deal.Seriously, I know there is someone for everyone, but as you get older you learn what things are really important and what is just window dressing. Do I want the kind of woman that my buddies look at and say how did you get her to go out with you? Oh you better believe it! But I want her to go out with me because she feels good being with me. She feels secure in herself with me. She sees the real me, not just some made up image in her mind that I can't compare to. Being real, being honest, being friends, then letting it progress, that's what this is all about.Sorry girls if someone gets offended, it's just honesty. Without up front honesty, you got nothing! Open to ideas! Somewhere for coffee or a drink, where I can focus my attention on the other person to get to know her.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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