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Jemmy, 39

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About Me

I'm completely new at this. Been divorced about 10 months now. Have two great kids that live with me part time. I am convinced that there are beautiful women out there that actually believe nice guys are worth trying to date!I love having a quiet evening with a great person, cooking on the grill, or dinner and a movie. Of course, anything LSU is a plus. Baseball in the gold seats or out in the bleachers, either is great. Really not that complicated a person. I work too much and have used that to fill my time during the weeks I don't have my kids, so haven't really hit the dating scene. One of my friends has been on me to try this so here I am.I believe in treating a woman with respect. Little things like opening the door, small texts about your day. I want to feel valued, so why wouldn't I treat a woman the same? All I ask is you be real. In turn I will be the same. Not pretentious, not fake. If it works out great, if not, I hope the experience makes it worth the effort.Perfect people need not apply...perfection in a person is just a myth, but a relationship makes the flaws not so big of a deal.Seriously, I know there is someone for everyone, but as you get older you learn what things are really important and what is just window dressing. Do I want the kind of woman that my buddies look at and say how did you get her to go out with you? Oh you better believe it! But I want her to go out with me because she feels good being with me. She feels secure in herself with me. She sees the real me, not just some made up image in her mind that I can't compare to. Being real, being honest, being friends, then letting it progress, that's what this is all about.Sorry girls if someone gets offended, it's just honesty. Without up front honesty, you got nothing! Open to ideas! Somewhere for coffee or a drink, where I can focus my attention on the other person to get to know her.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jbegonph

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    Man. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 21-67

    Hmu on *** you want to kick it im not a paid member can't respond to your messages

  • Diggory

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    Man. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 33-43

    I'm looking for my bestfriend. Are you out there? Some of my hobbies include hanging with friends, watching movies/tv, shooting guns( I own a few myself), mountain biking, fishing( sometimes I just take my lures for a swim, lol), and kayaking(I try to combine the last two) Those are just a few off the top of my head for right now. I don't really want to tell you everything now, because we wouldn't have anything to talk about! Other than that I don't know what to tell you. If you want to know anything just ask. i wont bite ur head off. lol! So if you are interested then just message me My ideal first date would be in a quit location so we could chat and get to know each other a little better. It doesn't have to be at a restaurant. Maybe at an over look at the lake or something like that.

  • Shane

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    Man. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 34-44

    OK before we get started I want to be completly open. I was born with 2 rare afflictions(expecially in men), an over sized heart and a bone disorder. The over sized hearts sideaffects are willingness to Love respect and forever be there for the special one in my life. The bone disorder is more commonly known as a funny bone. It often happens at any oportune time and will cause the people around me to bust out laughing or just generaly tell me Im a goofball. Also it will generaly chear up anyone that spends a good amount of time with me when there having a hard day. If you have a problem with either of these afflictions please move on and dont waist either of our time cause you got issues girl LOL. If you don't please read on.First things first if after reading your intrested don't hit Meet me please just send me a message. I don't reply to the Meet mes because I have found most of them don't read my profile. Bot please if intrested send me a message I may not have seen your profile and hey we may be ment to be LOL.How do I begin to describe myself? I'm shy at first, but when you get to know me, I am a friend, a comedian, a salesman, a mechanic, an uncle, a brother, a son, a musician, a movie lover, a laid back guy, a Christian, enjoy life kind of guy, but most importantly, I’m human. "Between the mind and the heart the mind is easiest to change, always follow your heart." That is my motto ~ believe in yourself first and the rest will fall into place. I enjoy life however mundane or little it may be at times. I enjoy learning new things and being with GOOD people. The great bumper sticker of life “Mean People SUCK” is so true and so do liars. I try not to surround myself with them. I cannot live without my music and movies. I love all kinds. I listen to Rockabilly a lot and classic roots country, but also love 80’s and modern rock too. I can sit and enjoy all movies from corny comedies to action flicks, and especially chic flicks. Yes, I am the one guy that will watch “The Notebook” over and over. I love antiques and shopping. I do believe I have a good since of style when needed (I can dress myself thank you and if you want me to stop by the mall to pick up a dress for you for the evening I can do that as well). Museums are wonderful ~ I love to look at Art, Artifacts, and History. I love to travel, whether it’s a short weekend trip to the mountains or a week long trip to somewhere nice for relaxation. I also have a hardcore addiction to antique cars. Family is very important to me. If it weren’t for my parents, my sister, brother n law, and wonderful nieces I don’t know where I would be today. Anyone that comes into my life must respect that. Also, I am willing and would love to add their family and children into my life. I have a hardcore belief in Christianity, although I don’t go to church as much as I should.To be fair, I must tell you, I have a mild form of Muscular Dystrophy. I wear leg braces and walk with a slight limp, but I do not let it slow me down. I believe where there is a will, there is a way. Love me for my diversity, Accept me for my weaknesses, and dont take advantage of my kindness! If you made it this far, I ask that you don’t hesitate to contact me but please no one short liner let me know what intrested you not just hey how are ya, this is real for me. Simply put, I am looking for "THE ONE" that makes my life complete. I'm not wanting to play dating games, but am willing to get to know each other. "If you can promise me anything, promise me that whenever you're sad, or unsure, or you lose complete faith, that you'll try to see yourself through my eyes." ~ from the final letter on P.S. I Love You An off the wall, laid back, easy atmosphere to get to know each other. Possibly something fun like Funopolis or a pottery class. Also, a quiet dinner, getting to know each other is good.

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