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Hartley, 38
United States, Connecticut, Deep River

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About Me

Hmmm...where to start...Music is huge in my life, keeps me motivated and is a constant reminder of the rhythm of life. This is kinda how I rock, but enjoy diverse types of *** there? Then let me give you another great track, IMO of *** have a career and love to relax during downtime, I enjoy athletics, movies that challenge the viewer, comedy clubs, sporting events, hiking, and quality conversation. Pro sports (UFC/NFL) or college, I'm in. Can we talk? A women's ability to communicate attracts me more than anything, words often express where a person is coming from. I know what I am looking for in a women, and believe that developing a rapport, getting to know someone is the key to long lasting relationships...But first things first...The right women has to have a sense of humor, and not take herself too serious. If you can laugh at yourself, you are halfway home...My ideal person is independent, professional, health conscious, and has a big heart, but has not forgotten how to have fun. All that said sometimes it's just a spark that just happens, and I want that feeling again. Must be open minded...I am always looking to grow as a person and am open to new ideas/experiences.My goals revolve around living a balanced life, spiritually and physically. Definitly into health and wellness, and I work out regularly. Actually I bought some DJ equipment to play around with at home. Cool little hobby...That said, I'm just as satified with staying home and cooking dinner/watching a movie...I like to think that I have a lot to offer and want to find that person to share with. Love to travel and currently have the bug to visit the Dominican Republic...the pictures I have seen are amazing! Somewhat of an east coast type guy, but enjoy the west, does that make sense? A strong family back ground is a plus, I grew up in a close Italian family and appreciate the impact of culture in ones life. Love finds a way, and I'm excited for the possibility of meeting that special someone who compliments me. That's about it for now...just a start...I look forward to what comes next...Blessings...Update/Edit--This place can really be a jungle...be careful! There are some really strange people in here..lol. That said, I am far from perfect...Do I really need to take my shirt off to impress? That said, if I did... Let's make it a surprise, I'm down for almost anything...almost being the key word...lol...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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