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Born and raised in NY my whole life, but happy so far with the change. I'm looking to meet new friends or someone to have a long term relationship with. I beleive in working hard and playing harder, however I would love to setle down and do things with someone.. About me.... I'm funny, outgoing and active. This may sound sad, but I am a romantic. I believe in holding the door open, cooking a nice dinner, or just cuddling in bed. I love to get dressed up and go out, but can also just relax watching a movie with a bottle of Malbec or Shiraz. i just recently started learning how to country dance....im getting there...lol. I love to go on road trips or weekend getaways when possible. I have a 6-year-old son who is my life. He is my best friend and I cherish every moment I get with him. Family and friends are very important to me. Theres nothing like spending the holidays at home! Besides new friends, I am looking for someone caring, funny, outgoing and adventurous. Most important, someone i can hold a intelligent conversation with. BTW I'm a huge sucker for a woman in a Sun dress...just sayin.Ok…update…I feel the need to put this blunt disclaimer for all you materialistic women….1) I’m from NY…not the south…I don’t say ya’….For all of you that don’t know what that is…its ***HP of pure American muscle car. Calling it a “girls car” to me wasn’t the best choice of words. I’m sorry I don’t drive a pick-up truck…and probably never will. Yes a girl actually said this, and that she rather date a guy that drives a pick up.3) I’m not a “bad Ass”.. but I do have a Italian temper when you cross or lie to me..soo please move on…..go to a jail and write some convict letters till he gets out.4) I just moved here…I have a good job, but I do live in a apt. Never have before. Sorry, if your drilling questions into me to figure out how big my house is so that you can move you and your 10 kids in that’s not going to happen.5) Don’t get me wrong…I loooooove kids. Wish I had a few more. That’s why I date women with several kids. I don’t have a problem with it. I am a Corporate investigator…so I can tell pretty quickly when you are trying to find a baby’s daddy for all your kids rather than a real relationship. I get it, your looking out for your kids, but that doesn’t mean I have to suffer with someone settling for me cause I have a steady job and a good head on my shoulders. 6) I’m not Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise, Mathew Mconehey (or however you spell that) or any other hot movie star with a 6 pack and muscles all over the place. I’m Jim, an average guy with an average body. If I have to start describing each detail of my body to you then you are looking at the wrong person. Go to a drug store, pick up a copy of some star magazine and stare at those pics on your lunch hour. On that note, I am not fat, I don’t have “rolls” I keep fit and I consider myself in shape. Never had a complaint. 7) I’m not a billionaire, just your average millionaire….so if it’s all about money, please move on.8) I like affection, holding hands, arms around your neck type of guy. If you fell Smothered by these types of moves, please move on.I really have no problem putting this out there. If these are not issues then great! Contact me…I rather stay on for 5 years and not meet anyone *** meeting someone that is materialistic and only looking for something in the best interest of them or their kids. I am looking for someone that want a real partnership/friendship/relationship.Thanks Wine bar or quite pub to chat

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Man. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 35-45

    I work hard and enjoy what I do...overall happy with my life, but something is missing. I'm looking for a great girl/woman/lady that likes to have fun, whether we go out on a Saturday night for some country dancing and a cold beer or cuddle on the couch watching movies/baseball/football on a lazy Sunday. I am eager to meet that special woman, but patient in my search to find the right woman for me. I am confident and secure in who I am and where I'm going. If you are looking for a good man that is in good shape, both physically and emotionally, pays his own bills....on time, very much a protector of family and friends and even the underdog who can't quite defend themselves, works hard to make us a nice living, treats you like a princess, young at heart, is chivalrous and opens doors whenever possible, respects women and others in general, loves to make people laugh and tell corny jokes, "lets" you be you and supports your independence as an individual, is God-fearing and walks with Him to the best of his abilities (I'm not perfect, nor do I expect you to be), loves to cuddle, may just bust out with some Salt n' Pepa lyrics, is affectionate, will hold your hand and/or your purse in public, will do everything within his power to make your every last dream come true, gives you the shirt off his back, is all about seeing his son (7 years old) and being a very involved father, gladly pays child support, is good friends with his son's mom, treats others as he would like to be treated, doesn't do jealousy, isn't possessive or chauvinistic in the least and loves long, wet, deep, passionate, lip-nibbling kisses that last for days....I may just be the man for you. Go Fish..!(All pictures were taken within last ***months)Eddie Meet up for a relaxing, friendly cold beer and a few giggles to see if the chemistry is there. Proceed accordingly.

  • Carey

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    Man. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 35-45

    Hello, well lets start off I am 37 years old and have 2 kids. One does live with his mom and my daughter I have her half the time. I do have a somewhat decent job, my own house, and my own car so I am very independent. I don't get a lot of time and I'm not into going to bars so I figured I'd give this a try. I do like my time with my daughter and doing things with her and I also am a big sports fan but mainly football and college basketball. I am looking to chat with new people and if things go good then possibly set something up to meet in person and just go from there. I don't have much faith in this site as it seems to be turning into a joke (don't you love it when people block you for no reason? I know mutual attraction is a must so at least reply back and say not interested) but I'll give it one last shot here.Classy women that I have been blocked by for saying "Hi"Angiemuskieslove2laugh80NurseJenRSsvettttochkaYogamami7 Whatever we decide

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    Man. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 35-45

    Not really sure why I'm doing this. I'm comfortable with and enjoy being single. My daughter says that I need companionship and thinking of me being all alone makes her sad, and thinking of her being sad makes me sad. ):So here I am trying to find the unfindable. So, a little about me... If you don't like sarcasm, then you probably don't like me. If you hate procrastination then you probably hate me. If you think that I should put the toilet seat down after I , then I would ask why you don't think that you should have to lift the dang thing after you pee. If you think everything has to be done right now, then I would assure you that slow and steady wins the race. I am not a jealous person, and you should not be either. I can't stand it when someone needs to know where I am and what I'm doing every minute of every day. That will usually trigger some ultra-sarcasm from me, such as: "I was out doing drugs with prostitutes!" or "Doing it with your sister!" Not that I like to be a jerk, but that's just the way I am. If someone takes a tone with me, I give it right back. So be pleasant, and I will be as well. I also like my alone time and absolutely despise being interrupted without it being some sort of emergency, and no, you being bored is not an emergency. See why I'm unmatchable? (: O.K., if you are still reading this and are not totally turned off, then congratulations! You may just qualify as a partner for the best guy on earth,... me! Now that you know the bad stuff you get with me, let us get into the good stuff. I am generally a very patient person who thinks life is about laughing. I always try to make the best out of every situation. I know I can't change the past or any recent event so I make light of nearly every situation, good or bad. I am often accused of not caring because of this, but I assure you that is not the case. I love music, nature and family. I am not very good at starting conversations, but can join in with almost any topic and sometimes get annoyingly long winded about certain topics that I am passionate about. I enjoy learning new things, but my interests often shift back and forth between things so it seems like I am going in circles sometimes. I like playing my guitar, but rarely play it in front of people because for some reason I have to play perfectly or I feel like I am failing. I am somewhat of a homebody, but I enjoy going out occasionally. My friends tell me that I am funny and annoyingly care-free. I am not a person who cares about appearance, and I could care less about money. As long as my rent is paid and I have chocolate, then why would I need anything else? All of my extra money I like to spend on my daughter, who is the most beautiful, intelligent, funny and amazing person I know. Anyway, if you want to know more about me, then you will just have to contact me. Like I said, I'm not really sure why I'm even doing this. I'm not completely sold on having a relationship, but I am willing to give it a try and see where it leads.

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