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Deshaun, 37
United States, Georgia, Bonaire

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UPDATE.... Before sending a message please read the profile, ok its a bit long but hey one things for sure you aint seen anything like this before ;) so go make a cup of tea then sit back and enjoy the read, you never know, you may just like it ;)A little about me! I'm a builder sole trader, I'm not a rich man just hard grafting lad, I own a horse which is a big part of my life, Ive had her nearly ten years now, its a bit of a long story how I got into riding so I'll tell you another time, with work and my horse I don't get that much time for going out to meet new people so I thought I'd give this a try, I don't have any children but yes one day I would like to be a dad, with the right person of course.I could write a five page essay about my life on here but I wont, isn't that the part of getting to know someone anyway.So if you like what you see and wont to know more just drop us a line.Ok I'm going to do a list of what I'm looking for and a bit more about me, its just a list not a set of rules and there not set in stone, and remember its a bit like a text message, it can be read so many different ways, please don't take any offense by it, I just think it saves wasting alot of time and remember theres more to me than just this profile1 I want to be a dad someday.2. One day I'd like to get married, guess that goes together with number one.3. A girl that look just as good in her scruff than she does made up (work that one out)4. I'm not into a girls that need tons of war paint on, I'd rather see the real you5. Ive not given up hope in finding the true L thing6. A take home to meet your mum kinda girl ;)7. I like the slim / petite type,average ;) allthou ive noticed average is a miss used word on here, I didn't relise how many different types of average there was, its a joke ;) .8. Romance is the key,I'm not afraid to say I like romance9. I don't have my own place, i'm back at the family home10. I don't have a flash car, Ive got a transit van thou and yes its a white one ;) I own it and its not on credit ;)11. Similar interests would be good but not a necessity thou.12. As Ive said I'm not rich, so if its a man with money your after then I'm not for you, in my line of work its either famine or feast, I never give up thou, I'm a grafting lad13. Honesty14. I know how to use a washing machine and iron, I'm house trained ;)15. I see myself as the exception to the rule , Why? thats something you will have to find out16. Trust17. I'm 5' 8" so if your taller than that in them heel thingys then its a no, I'm not standing on a milk crate to kiss you ;)18. I'm not politically correct.19. If i say your attractive its meant as compliment so take it as one.20. I want to have chickens in the garden some day21. Talking of honesty, theres one little white lie on this profile.22. I'm nobody's second best and I'm not looking for a second best.23 Would like to learn to dance, that sexy posh dancing ;)24. I'm a smoker but I'm cutting down with the intention of quitting alltogether, I want kids someday and I intend to be there for them.25. Believe it or not but I am shy, but once I get to know someone i do open up26. Yes I no my horse is beautiful, trust me she knows it aswell ;)27. I don't have the internet on my phone so if you message me I may not responed straight away, the interent can be good but I still like to live in the real world if you get my point ;)28. Never give up on your dreams.29. Live in the now not the past, you can't change the past but you can change what you do today30. You never know one day we may be able to say, we found love in a hopeless place aka meetville ;)31. "Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.” let it go32. Theres nothing wrong with you sending a message first. Ladies first as they say ;) Lets face it you probably get loads of hi hows you and my message may get lost in all of them ! so aleast if your making the first move theres a good chance it won't get lost, I'll reply aleast, theres a method to my madness, figurally speaking of course ;)To be continuedIf I find the girl of my dreams on here I'll drop my kecks in asda ;) thats a bet Sitting on a wall sharing a bag of chips and watching the world go byAre you a second looker ? The Second Looker...Before I begin this little story just remember everyman does this and in most cases we don't even relise we have done it until that faithful day, the time, place and scenario can be different but the principles are the same ;)Man walking down the street going about his daily business when a girl passes him , she looks at him and smiles and he thinks to himself mmmm i'd give her one or words to that effect if you get my point, remember we think that in a millionth of a second and like i said in most cases we don't even relise we have thought it !So man passes girl, thinks the millonth of a second thing and continues to walk on and goes about his daily business as if nothing has happened.Same scenario but different time and different place.Man walking down the street and girl passes him and smiles, he thinks that millonth of a second thing then continues to walk on and goes about his daily routine then it happens !, man stops his heart his pounding and he dosen't know why but he feels like he's just been hit by a freight train and for some reason he turns and looks again but this time he's not thinking that millonth of a second thing, the only thing he is thinking is ! "SHE'S THE ONE"Now thats the second lookerAuthor J.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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