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Benjie, 38

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About Me

I am a single father who is looking for a long term relationship. I do understand that it can take time so I know that getting to know one another is very important. He also stays with me all summer. I enjoy running, reading and spending time with my son. We play tennis, golf and go ice skating together mostly. I have a good sense of humor and I find humor in most situations. I cab be sarcastic but know when I shouldn't be. I spend most spring/summer weekends at the lake with my family. I know how important family and I live only a block from them so I see them most days. Coffee, dinner, drinks(I don't drink but don't mind bars) Ice skating. Going hiking or going to the driving range. I'm open to anything except things that involve heights.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Masen

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    Man. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 37-47

    Pretty easy going, laid back single Dad seeking his partner in crime. I never knew dating could be such a challenge.....so many personalities to mesh, likes and dislikes, makes it just about impossible to narrow it down.....so I'm just looking for someone who gets me.....doesn't have to agree with everything...that would be boring, but she will just understand me. I enjoy sports, watching and participating. I'm a big fan of the outdoors....camping, fishing, boating, bonfires....love it! I love to cook.....yes, I cook and I'm pretty good at it! I also love music and movies. I'm not much of a t.v watcher....but give me a good movie and I'm there.This is still I'm so past the game phase in my life....if you think dating is a competitive sport and the object is to confuse, deceive or date as many people as you can in a month.....I'm not your guy. I'm blunt and straightforward....if we go out and I didn't feel it, I will be polite and tell you and wish you well. I won't tell you "I'll call you" only to delete your number as soon as I get in the car.....and the same courtesy from you would be appreciated.....hate the games.Does online dating shrink peoples attention spans?? You trade a few *** and forth with someone and then its like "oh look, a pretty butterfly!" And poof....its over! Lol! *sigh*Oh.....another thing I've noticed. A lot of women talk about the rash of men taking pictures of themselves shirtless in the mirror........is taking a picture of themselves in a car the female equivalent? Noticed that one a lot!**disclaimer** if you add me to your favorites.....first off, I'm flattered......but the clock is ticking. Due to a number of women adding me to their favorites and then never contacting me, I'm imposing the "24 hour rule" lol! If you don't contact me in 24 hours after adding me......I'm removing myself from your list. If you like me or what I had to say......suck it up and send me an *** you don't.......why did you add me to your favorites list in the first place?? Lol! It seems simple enough! Another random thought.....must be a lot of women here in the witness relocation program......I've never seen so many people from "; lol. Honestly....I'm all about you ladies being safe, but you must think very highly of yourself to think someone is going to scour an entire city to track you down. Lol. Something short....coffee or drinks....with an open window to extend the evening if things go well.***I will answer all *** here on out, and I will be totally honest...the reason? Because thats what a decent human being would do.***

  • Vernon

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    Man. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 33-43

    Ladies I am on this site to meet someone, I am NOT here to ask for pics or just be another perv. It seems a lot of woman on this site have been jaded by these guys. I am not that guy, I honestly am here to meet someone. Ok I am done and off my soapbox.Oh boy here we go with the sales pitch. I am just a normal guy looking to meet someone whom I connect with. Someone who will be there for me and I will be there for them. Someone who can challenge me and I can challenge them back in good ways. I am looking for someone who can chill out and just watch a movie or can go out and have a beer. I like going out to new restaurants and exploring new things. People describe me in many different ways but always fun.People say I am witty, smart, and personable and I think those are all good things. I can also type very fast (haha). I am always trying to make people laugh and be happy, life is too short to be sad or upset. I also can be serious and give solid advice when needed. It's not all fun and games all the time. I like to dress casual when I am not working but I also can dress up and look pretty for nice events and meetings. I am a down to earth person that has realistic goals and dreams. I can also cook. Let's see what else, I have zero idea what I am doing I am not very good at selling myself in a profile but I am giving it a try anyway. I am a hard worker that spends a lot of time working. If you like to have fun and are looking to chat I would be happy to get to know you. Meet up for drinks and than maybe a lite dinner.

  • Amaria

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    Man. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 36-46

    I have a great life and would like to share it with someone else. I have a variety of hobbies and my favorite two are to travel and to see live music.I also like live music. I got to about 30 shows a year, not including festivals. My friends say I am a music snob, but if you do a little homework there are many great smaller bands that, although are not commercial successes, still produce great music.I am pretty easy going and down to Earth. I really don't sweat the small stuff. I like to laugh and usually have a smile on my face and think I am pretty funny.I also have really started to work on becoming healthier (not that I wasn't before) and have lost a significant amount of weight with more to go. I love to run and just did the Soldier Field 10 mile and have a few races to go. I also like to lift weights and do general cardio. I like to meet someone for drinks or coffee.

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