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About me... I am a study in contradictions to some degree. I dig the energy of big cities, their architecture, history, culture, vibes, etc. And yet I also need to get away to wide open spaces and be quiet sometimes. And eat lots of red meat cooked over fire.- maybe Amador County. Wait, what am I talking about here? Oh yeah... meetville.com, contradictions, etc. Got it. Another example... I do have this artistic side to me. I tried painting - it wasn't good. I might try again. But its a mindset thing and I see so much life and passion and feeling in art. It's hella cool. At the same time, I'm a jock. Huge fan of Niners, BoSox, Giants, Blazers, ND, UO. Play sports as often as I can, workout a lot, etc. Now I can date a girl who isn't into sports, but just know that i will convert you. Promise.I work pretty hard during the week. Am I a workaholic? No. Well, OK maybe sometimes. But life isn't about that. And that is why I am here. Probably you as well. Aiming to connect with cool people, and ultimately find love. I have two beautiful children, 9 and 11. I get to have them half the time. One is on the autism spectrum which is certainly challenging but he is healing everyday and that is exciting. We are pretty active and have fun together. So honestly I am still figuring out how to plan out AND execute all the logistics of daily life when I have them. Meals, laundry, cleaning, shopping, schedules... WTH??? But it's fun and rewarding. (BTW - I seriously need pointers on how to time out meals so all the dishes (read: microwaveable food) are ready at the same time.)A few checklist items here: i am NOT into creating/tolerating drama, i am pretty driven/ambitious, i have a car, never forget my wallet, dont have any tattoos (subject to change), solid grilling skillz, not in jail. About who I'm looking for...You gotta be hot. That's just a given. If I reach out to you, its cuz I think u might be hot. Hopefully I am right! After that though, and more importantly, I want a connection/chemistry/magic/etc. And you need to love being with kids - your own if you have them, and potentially/eventually mine... and maybe "ours"... someday, maybe, who knows... I mean, we just met... actually we didn't, but we might. I don't have a long checklist about your interests or background or even personality types. Everyone is different and that is what is fun about this. You do need to generally be a positive person, live a healthy lifestyle, smart, fun and easy-going. And I am not big on flakey girls. Other than that, it's kinda all good.Finally...I love music. Always looking for my next favorite song - often one no one has heard of. Right now its Love Like Rockets by Angels & Airwaves. What's yours? Something crazy extravagant. We'll start with lots of over the top gestures, and long, uncomfortable staring into your eyes (it won't matter if you try to look away). There could be 80s ballads playing in the background, public pronouncements of our blossoming love, our families scattered around (hopefully taking pictures). Then, flash mobs that ideally attract local (at least) media attention and plenty of kids who document everything on Youtube. And chocolate.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

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