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Bassett, 39
United States, New Jersey, Short Hills

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About Me

Understand I use to be a hopeless romantic, truly and during the course of writing my book on dating love and sex I have to face the facts. Now I am practical romantic ( Liberate Lover ...see bellow) and still have a deep loving soul and realize that all the good I do / did in my professional career comes from my loving nature...and you can hate the message but don't shoot the messenger. This will seem counter intuitive to you but the driving forces of single living is a choice in great part and also a failure to wise up...not grow up. Relationships ***** define it in two words? If we end up talking I be sure to tell you. (yes two words explains what this sought after goal post really is about***NOTE :***Even though i am working on a book on dating, love and sex my purpose here is NOT research. Single is prefered choice for two reasons : 1) sexual expierences 2)spiritual growth.MY STYLE – Liberated Lover *(freedom baby)You prefer your romance and love to wild and daring rather than typical or boring, when it comes to physical love, your satisfaction comes more from providing a wonderful time to your partner than simply seeking your own. This places you in the Lover Style of: The Liberated Lover.The Liberated Lover is a wonderful Lover Style, and forms the kind of free-thinking, sexually-exciting, self-confident lover that society once condemned but that a liberal-mind cherishes and exults. The Liberated Lover is a treasure to find, though it can sometimes be difficult to do so because they are often already engaged in relationships or are in high-demand if "in the market."In terms of physical love, the Liberated Lover is possibly the most thrilling and demanding of all, with the one potential drawback being that it is possible to feel 'overmatched' at times by their prowess and selfless giving. Given trust and understanding, and the right lover, the Liberated Lover can be a delight in bed. Depends...my imagination just requires inspiration

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Ben from Short Hills | Man | 34 years old | Pisces
    Ben

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    Man. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 18-28

    Hi! My name is Ben. I am never married other african man without kids from Short Hills, New Jersey, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

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  • Tibby from Short Hills | Man | 37 years old | Scorpio
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    Man. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 34-44

    I'm positive, charming, devastatingly handsome with a good sense of humor. What else could you ask for right?Update: Apparently there are a lot of guys on this site that are lacking some of the additional things I bring to the table; Everyone is a bit different, and I adapt very well to any social setting. I like to be sure the date is not weird or stuffy. Always looking at first dates as friends, no matter how good the chat on meetville or IMs. Everyone knows first dates can be a little uncomfortable, then again some can be truly fantastic. Let's message and talk about it.

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  • Jagger from Short Hills | Man | 36 years old | Aries
    Jagger

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    Man. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 33-43

    This is my first try at online dating. I am a bit skeptical but I am keeping an open mind. I have focused a long time on my education and career but I am ready for something new in my life. I am a high school chemistry teacher. I love it. I love science but not sci fi (go figure?) Active may be a good day to describe myself. I am going to run another ***in Sept ***.I have not always been so physically active but i guess I caught that bug and now I love it! I also work in my yard. I like the flowers and landscaping to look nice. Traveling is also a big part of my life. I love to go, go go! In addition to teaching, running, etc, I am finishing my dissertation in Education. I cant wait for that to be finished! What am I looking for? I would like a person to share life with, get to know, travel together, I can have fun by myself but having someone there to have fun with would be even better! I would like to travel, go to nice resturants, dance, etc. I am looking for a woman who is educated, loved to travel and likes to do things. I don't want to someone to just sit around and watch tv. That has its place, don't get me wrong, but not all the time. So I guess thats me in a nut shell. OH music. I love all types of music. It depends on my mood I think a first meeting might be coffee or something casual where we can talk and get to know each other. As for first date, I have been wanting to go swing dancing. I hear there is a place in HSV to do that. I have two left feet but it would be fun. I use to go when it was popular during college. It can be very fun to restaurant hop and have just appetizers and drinks and a few restaurants. Anything active really. I am not much of one to sit.

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