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Rayner, 40
United States, South Carolina, Chapin

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About Me

im easy going, love good conversation. im not materialistic. i want something good without excess drama.i feel i deserve that one good thing so to speak. must love dogs. must be able to hold a conversation. also must love the outdoors. i would love to have my mate become my best friend. im very open emotionally, and expect the same. good communication is key in any relationship. im honest and believe thats the only way to be. im a typical virgo. i want someone to walk though life with me not behind me or ahead of me. i have many varied interests and can find some fun in just about everything.i was riding horses before a bicycle.i love to hike and swim , or just relax by a warm fire, in doors or out. i am very affectionate with the one im with, and i love intimacy, and just so we are all clear intimacy does not mean sex. intimacy is more important! i grew up in the country but i also love the city. i love all types of music. im a romantic, but i tend to keep that side quiet until i feel comfortable with someone. i really need someone who will invoke my passions. i want to know that i am important and loved by my mate.im not insecure at all but those things are very nice things to know. i can be very giving of myself and that can be exhausting for me when that is not returned. i respect myself and those around me, i believe in helping those who cannot help themselves. i believe differences are to be enjoyed and learned from , not put down and changed or hidden.there are things we like and dont like about ourselves and im no different.ive never cheated and have never abused anyone. i do adhere to the golden rule... do unto others...i describe myself as very spiritual, not overly religious.the key to me is through my intellect and emotions. i am not a one night stand guy, this for me goes back to the self respect thing.if you would like to know more please feel free to ask! a first date would have to be based around mutual interests and conversation. any activity that can involve these things is great for me, its all about getting a feel for the other person on a first date. to find a common connection, to try to build a foundation. also a few dates does not a relationship make. while i am searching for the greater picture, im not so naive to think that a few dates means that i have found the one. fun is fun but love is so much more.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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