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Sim, 39
United States, Connecticut, Suffield

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About Me

Noticed it was time for an update...I am a 38 yr old guy with a 17 yr old daughter to continues to amaze me. She is my rock star and inspiration! She is also the source of my gray hair...I've recently quit smoking (1 month...) thanks to e-cigs. I know, it's cheating but I figured water vapor and nicotine is better than smoke, ash, tar and nicotine...I like to stay active and would like to continue so I've decided my goal is to start my 40's in better shape than I did my 30's. I like to snowboard and mountain bike. Wake boarding is on my bucket list. I also like to shoot pool, have a few beers occasionally, camp, fish... the usual MN stuff... If your interests are reading and crocheting that's great but those aren't things we can do together so it'd be nice if you enjoyed one or more of the above activities too... You I hope are a youthful spirit and active too. You're probably under 40 but if you're young at heart it won't rule you out. I also hope you have your own friends. I'd love to meet them and it'd be great if you got along with mine but I don't deal well with codependency... we have to be able to go our own ways on occasion. You also probably have kids, hopefully out of diapers as I really have no intentions of changing any more.. I love kids but I prefer them at a more entertaining age that can do fun things like... play catch and do the chores I don't want to! :-)I am far from perfect and don't expect nor want perfect, so boring... I'm not Mr. GQ, I'm not rich and I'm not looking for a Vicky's model either. I do have awesome blue eyes however! While I'm not expecting perfection, there are some deal breakers that experience forces me to disclose...1. We all make mistakes and we all have a past... If yours contains a felony, especially for arson... no thanks. I prefer my stuff not set ablaze...2. If you are a drug user/ addict... please seek a 12 step program, complete it, and try your call again later. ***ceased being fun shortly after high school and anything else = psychotic...3. If there are more potential baby daddies than babies... Again, we all make mistakes... but if you've made the same mistake repeatedly, I'm not looking to be your next!In the end, all I want is someone real and genuine. You know you rock and you're awesome without the need to have other people affirm it all the time. But you're still OK if I do... Who knows, I don't know you so that's tough. It's also seasonable dependent. A drink on a patio is great... unless it's January.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Blues R&B Reggae British Greek Portuguese Thai
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