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Alphonzo, 38

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About Me

A work in progress... After 14 years in the restaurant industry I've decided on a career change. What that change will be has yet to be decided, but for the time being I'm taking the happy-go-lucky approach to things rather than allow a midlife crisis to boil over. I've been enjoying more time lately to my friends, myself, and travel/relaxation endeavors. I have degrees in meteorology and music and NO, I'm not in the market for becoming a singing weatherman.I'm a genuine, educated and honest guy who prefers direct communication over innuendo and assumption. I'm a romantic but I love my own personal space from time to time. I'm comfortable in many environments, though I'm not into the club and party scene; unfortunately I must admit, I'm no longer 21. I really prefer to hang with groups of friends over dinner, drinks, and stimulating conversation versus hitting the bars. Once in a while I'm not opposed to the latter! I'm looking for another guy who enjoys traveling, going out on the town, but is also gratified by quiet time at home- on the couch watching a movie, doing some gardening, or just spending a Sunday afternoon in bed having fun... I like cooking for a guy on a first date. Bring over a bottle (or two) of wine, we'll chat by the lake, and dine in style. I'm just as comfortable going out for a quick bite or a drink, but those situations feel rushed sometimes.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Logan

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    Man. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I'm a mature, professional, caring, masculine guy who is looking for the same. I would love to find someone who's interested in getting to know each other as friends, and see where that takes us. I think honesty, integrity, and good communication are important and foundational in any healthy relationship - be that friendships or dating relationships. Plus, I love to laugh, and you'll score major points if you can make me do that.My career is important to me, and I hope to find someone who feels the same way about his career. But spending time with someone I care about is equally important to me. It would be great to find someone who wants that too.I also work fairly hard to take care of myself and to stay healthy, so I hope to find someone who does the same and who takes pride in his appearance. Looks aren't everything, but let's face it - physical attraction is important. And I'm totally a sucker for a guy who's confident and has a great smile.I love doing anything outdoors, when the weather allows. I'm a big movie buff, love trying new restaurants, and reading at cool coffee shops. I also enjoy traveling and heading out on a new adventure. For me, it's more about WHO I'm doing it with, rather than WHAT I'm doing. Make sense?So, if it sounds like I just described you, you should definitely give me a shout. Hope to hear from you soon...

  • Braeden

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    Man. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Looking for LTR more than anything, but not opposed to meeting new people for friends. Entertainment wise I enjoy it all....movies, theatre, bowling, watching sports (GEAUX TIGERS!!!), dinner, drinks, quiet evenings at home cuddling, hanging with friends, etc.

  • Stephan

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    Man. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Native Oregonian here. Looking for friendship that may lead to potential Long-term. Enjoy guys with substance, compassion, and intelligence. Most would say I have: loyalty, honesty, and compassion. Looking for someone that shares my views on life, but also holds true to their own individuality. I have a big heart, and am a great cuddler anytime. For the most part I'm a homebody, though sometimes I feel the need to travel, exploring parks/hiking, road trips, going to shops, and new restaurants. I also like to stay active as it's hard for me to sit still! Once in a while I go to the Comic Con's locally. I like the fantasy and scifi genre immensely. Music and poetry inspire me, and I hope they inspire you as well. Drawn to clever men with great communication skills. Please feel free to send a message my way, I encourage it! I enjoy talking and getting to know the other person one on one. Fun conversation and laughter sets a relaxing mood. I like to plan, although spontaneity during the time we spend together is great! Unexpected surprises are always a plus. Each date would depend on the person, and what we both would like doing. I want it to feel somewhat comfortable and not too awkward.

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