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Alphonzo, 38

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About Me

A work in progress... After 14 years in the restaurant industry I've decided on a career change. What that change will be has yet to be decided, but for the time being I'm taking the happy-go-lucky approach to things rather than allow a midlife crisis to boil over. I've been enjoying more time lately to my friends, myself, and travel/relaxation endeavors. I have degrees in meteorology and music and NO, I'm not in the market for becoming a singing weatherman.I'm a genuine, educated and honest guy who prefers direct communication over innuendo and assumption. I'm a romantic but I love my own personal space from time to time. I'm comfortable in many environments, though I'm not into the club and party scene; unfortunately I must admit, I'm no longer 21. I really prefer to hang with groups of friends over dinner, drinks, and stimulating conversation versus hitting the bars. Once in a while I'm not opposed to the latter! I'm looking for another guy who enjoys traveling, going out on the town, but is also gratified by quiet time at home- on the couch watching a movie, doing some gardening, or just spending a Sunday afternoon in bed having fun... I like cooking for a guy on a first date. Bring over a bottle (or two) of wine, we'll chat by the lake, and dine in style. I'm just as comfortable going out for a quick bite or a drink, but those situations feel rushed sometimes.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lewin

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    Man. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am open-minded, creative, healthy, hiv neg, and maleable. I am genuine. I'm not into the Scene, prefer to entertain at home, but I love adventures.I love art and anything creative as well as cooking, construction and camping. I'm a jack of all trades from desire. I have an Idea and I learn how to manifest it.I don't have a specific type, however some men turn me on and some don't. Historically, I prefer those considerate, honest, and a little butch( ie: not fem, not MACHO!!!!, just normal). You don't have to be rich, but you should be able to pay your way (that usually means employed). If you are overly complicated and are a magnet for drama, I'm not for you.I like who I am. I have invested in reflection and development. If you are the type who needs to change others, I'm not interested. I will afford you the same courtesy and respect the being that you are. It's not that I'm unchangeable (not by a long shot)! I like change, I welcome change, when it is a result of insight or inspiration or growth. I have respect for the art and necessity of compromise. I have a happy and fortunate life, I have worked hard but also been the beneficiery of good fortune. I am looking for someone to make it even better, someone who adds value to my life. I plan to do likewise to yours. I'm a firm believer that you get out of life (or love) what you put into it. I like, cooking, baking, painting, all creative endeavors, construction, camping, camping, camping! I’m a computer graphics/animator/web geek. I’ve been working my own for 11 years.One of my most favorite things in life is working on big projects with people I love. First dates depend on the person. I really am happy doing simple things like a hike with food, or a film festival, or a street fair. I love the outdoor, film screenings, or anything as long as the person I'm with can hold a conversation, has a sense of humor and not take things too seriously, I can have fun anywhere.

  • Logan

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    Man. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I'm a mature, professional, caring, masculine guy who is looking for the same. I would love to find someone who's interested in getting to know each other as friends, and see where that takes us. I think honesty, integrity, and good communication are important and foundational in any healthy relationship - be that friendships or dating relationships. Plus, I love to laugh, and you'll score major points if you can make me do that.My career is important to me, and I hope to find someone who feels the same way about his career. But spending time with someone I care about is equally important to me. It would be great to find someone who wants that too.I also work fairly hard to take care of myself and to stay healthy, so I hope to find someone who does the same and who takes pride in his appearance. Looks aren't everything, but let's face it - physical attraction is important. And I'm totally a sucker for a guy who's confident and has a great smile.I love doing anything outdoors, when the weather allows. I'm a big movie buff, love trying new restaurants, and reading at cool coffee shops. I also enjoy traveling and heading out on a new adventure. For me, it's more about WHO I'm doing it with, rather than WHAT I'm doing. Make sense?So, if it sounds like I just described you, you should definitely give me a shout. Hope to hear from you soon...

  • Braiden

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    Man. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    It is hard to know where to begin when trying to fit a description of oneself into a paragraph. So, I will try my best. I am a great mixture of outgoing and laid-back. I am an optimist who can see the silver lining in every grey cloud, but enjoy the sunny days of life just the same. I look beyond the surface because I think there is so much more to someone's story than the book cover. I can listen to someone's story without interruption, and would hope that they would let me tell mine. A good time to me is anytime I can spend with meaningful people...my friends and family being the most important to me. I can be spontaneously goofy, and look at laughing as a form of nourishment to the soul. Some things I enjoy...writing, photography, anything that will allow me the opportunity to be creative, music, the list goes on. I like to find adventure... I am just looking to meet someone to share time with...getting to know them, and letting them get to know me. Any place that would allow some great conversation. Long walks on the beach...just kidding! :-)

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