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Alphonzo, 38
United States, Alabama, Leesburg

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About Me

A work in progress... After 14 years in the restaurant industry I've decided on a career change. What that change will be has yet to be decided, but for the time being I'm taking the happy-go-lucky approach to things rather than allow a midlife crisis to boil over. I've been enjoying more time lately to my friends, myself, and travel/relaxation endeavors. I have degrees in meteorology and music and NO, I'm not in the market for becoming a singing weatherman.I'm a genuine, educated and honest guy who prefers direct communication over innuendo and assumption. I'm a romantic but I love my own personal space from time to time. I'm comfortable in many environments, though I'm not into the club and party scene; unfortunately I must admit, I'm no longer 21. I really prefer to hang with groups of friends over dinner, drinks, and stimulating conversation versus hitting the bars. Once in a while I'm not opposed to the latter! I'm looking for another guy who enjoys traveling, going out on the town, but is also gratified by quiet time at home- on the couch watching a movie, doing some gardening, or just spending a Sunday afternoon in bed having fun... I like cooking for a guy on a first date. Bring over a bottle (or two) of wine, we'll chat by the lake, and dine in style. I'm just as comfortable going out for a quick bite or a drink, but those situations feel rushed sometimes.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

English South American Turkish Adventure Mystery Western
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    Man. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    37 with outgoing, ambitious attitude. Love outdoors, movies, spontaneity, social and quiet at home moments. A loving warm heart for those who deserve it. Great work ethic, great circle of friends family, solid positive decision making ability. And a fun spirit with humor. Oh and I love to cook for others. laid back connecting that will leave an option. And as long as we're both comfortable and open minded

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  • Quincy from Leesburg | Man | 36 years old | Libra
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    Man. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Bleeding heart liberal lawyer type here, love talking politics and addicted to the news. Also a fan of comic book movies, gluten-free vegetarian food, musical theatre, and parks or beaches. I can geek out on any number of subjects. I'm a long-;big" or "husky" guy and nothing short of starving myself is going to change that. If a belly disgusts you, don't bother messaging me. On the other hand - I'm pretty serious about needing a workout partner.So there are no surprises later - I'm much, much more bottom than top. And my bedroom interests run from vanilla to kinky. Feel free to ask if you think that's going to be an issue. My progressive politics also impact my views on bedroom activities - I believe in a sex-positive attitude that doesn't judge or slut-shame or default to monogamy (I can be monogamous if that's what we both want and we've discussed it). Halloween is my favorite time of the year. Sweep me off my feet by taking me to a haunted house or a fun costume party. Otherwise, simple is good. Let's get coffee and take a walk. Or drinks at one of the quieter bars during happy hour. That said, I'm not opposed to things like fancy dinners, seeing a show, dancing past midnight, or other adventures. The point is getting to know each other, so if a trip to the zoo is more "you" than awkwardly talking about our jobs in Starbucks, show me.

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  • Joel from Leesburg | Man | 36 years old | Scorpio
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    Man. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    guess a few things to know about me: I like the outdoors ...I loves smiles. .museums. .parks ..board games ( scrabble is my favorite) ..and random acts of imagination Something nice and relaxing

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