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Alphonzo, 38

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About Me

A work in progress... After 14 years in the restaurant industry I've decided on a career change. What that change will be has yet to be decided, but for the time being I'm taking the happy-go-lucky approach to things rather than allow a midlife crisis to boil over. I've been enjoying more time lately to my friends, myself, and travel/relaxation endeavors. I have degrees in meteorology and music and NO, I'm not in the market for becoming a singing weatherman.I'm a genuine, educated and honest guy who prefers direct communication over innuendo and assumption. I'm a romantic but I love my own personal space from time to time. I'm comfortable in many environments, though I'm not into the club and party scene; unfortunately I must admit, I'm no longer 21. I really prefer to hang with groups of friends over dinner, drinks, and stimulating conversation versus hitting the bars. Once in a while I'm not opposed to the latter! I'm looking for another guy who enjoys traveling, going out on the town, but is also gratified by quiet time at home- on the couch watching a movie, doing some gardening, or just spending a Sunday afternoon in bed having fun... I like cooking for a guy on a first date. Bring over a bottle (or two) of wine, we'll chat by the lake, and dine in style. I'm just as comfortable going out for a quick bite or a drink, but those situations feel rushed sometimes.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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