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About Me

A work in progress... After 14 years in the restaurant industry I've decided on a career change. What that change will be has yet to be decided, but for the time being I'm taking the happy-go-lucky approach to things rather than allow a midlife crisis to boil over. I've been enjoying more time lately to my friends, myself, and travel/relaxation endeavors. I have degrees in meteorology and music and NO, I'm not in the market for becoming a singing weatherman.I'm a genuine, educated and honest guy who prefers direct communication over innuendo and assumption. I'm a romantic but I love my own personal space from time to time. I'm comfortable in many environments, though I'm not into the club and party scene; unfortunately I must admit, I'm no longer 21. I really prefer to hang with groups of friends over dinner, drinks, and stimulating conversation versus hitting the bars. Once in a while I'm not opposed to the latter! I'm looking for another guy who enjoys traveling, going out on the town, but is also gratified by quiet time at home- on the couch watching a movie, doing some gardening, or just spending a Sunday afternoon in bed having fun... I like cooking for a guy on a first date. Bring over a bottle (or two) of wine, we'll chat by the lake, and dine in style. I'm just as comfortable going out for a quick bite or a drink, but those situations feel rushed sometimes.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Catigern

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    Man. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Well-educated. Professional. I enjoy being outdoors, going to museums and plays, attending cultural events, traveling to fun and exciting destinations, and most of all, just being with someone special. I love cuddling in front of the fireplace on cold winter nights with a nice glass of cabernet. I'm a professional musician. Music is important to me. Guess which *** play. (Hint: There's a pic of it on my profile.) I enjoy classical music venues and concerts. I also like theater (especially musicals) and trying out-of-the-way restaurants in the city. I'm an omnivore. Life's too short to miss a beat. Let's see, what else can I say ... I'm not crazy about kids. I do enjoy a good movie from time to time (and holding hands in the dark at the theater). I love thunderstorms and autumn. I hate fennel seeds. I don't particularly care for eggplant.I've been successful in my career and started my own consulting business. Not sure what I'm really looking for in here. Ideally, I'm LTR oriented. I'm ready to settle down with someone special. Might that someone be you?PS: Allergic to cats here ... please VACUUM! Chemistry is important. My ideal date is dinner at a local restaurant (nothing too fancy) followed by a walk in the forest preserve. Talking is the first step to get to know someone, so I don't think a movie date is ideal (for the first date, anyway).

  • Logan

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    Man. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I'm a mature, professional, caring, masculine guy who is looking for the same. I would love to find someone who's interested in getting to know each other as friends, and see where that takes us. I think honesty, integrity, and good communication are important and foundational in any healthy relationship - be that friendships or dating relationships. Plus, I love to laugh, and you'll score major points if you can make me do that.My career is important to me, and I hope to find someone who feels the same way about his career. But spending time with someone I care about is equally important to me. It would be great to find someone who wants that too.I also work fairly hard to take care of myself and to stay healthy, so I hope to find someone who does the same and who takes pride in his appearance. Looks aren't everything, but let's face it - physical attraction is important. And I'm totally a sucker for a guy who's confident and has a great smile.I love doing anything outdoors, when the weather allows. I'm a big movie buff, love trying new restaurants, and reading at cool coffee shops. I also enjoy traveling and heading out on a new adventure. For me, it's more about WHO I'm doing it with, rather than WHAT I'm doing. Make sense?So, if it sounds like I just described you, you should definitely give me a shout. Hope to hear from you soon...

  • Kael

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    Man. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Hey, well what to say here, I pretty much am over the gay scene, Not too into gay bars, large gay crowds, BUT that means I make it very hard for myself to meet anyone. Just really want someone not necessarly on the down low but someone who I can go to a straight bar, hang out with my straight friens and have a good time with, and someone I can come home too. I have the policy if I meet someone GREAT, if not I am completly content with that as well. Hit me up and let's see what connection we have! Thanks First Date, HMMMMMMMM...... Prob after chatting a bit a nice dinner and maybe a walk downtown after just some time alone. I know way oo many people so somewhere I won't hear Oh Hey!

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