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Hayes, 39
United States, Louisiana, Fort Polk

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Funny, outspoken, loving guy looking to meet guys for dating and more. Ultimately looking for a special guy for a LTR. I'm a regular, hardworking professional ready to be serious for the right person. I'm not really into the bar scene. I'm more of a homebody, but do enjoy going out to the movies and dinner. Sometimes though, it's great to relax at home with someone special and enjoy a movie. I have an open mind for doing new things and being more active. I'm a born and raised Californian and haven't seen as much of our beautiful state as I'd like. There's a lot to see and do. I just need to find someone to do it with.I travel frequently around the US for work. I enjoy it because I get to see places I haven't been before and meet new and interesting people. When I'm not traveling, I have a pretty typical Monday-Friday schedule with weekends off. I listen to alternative and pop the most. I enjoy things that some might find boring these days like reading, keeping up with current events, and intelligent conversation. I am not on *** have a strong sense of intellectual curiosity. I am a huge history buff. Love the History channel. But, don't get the wrong idea. I am not too serious or intellectual. In fact, I'm pretty laid back. I enjoy comedy, laughing and generally having a good time. I'm a huge animal lover, dogs especially. I don't have a dog now, but would love to.I'm an Apple guy, and have been for years. I'm not completely obsessed but fairly devoted. I like to keep up with the latest and greatest that comes out of Apple. I enjoy my Mac and other Apple gear, and happy to discuss it with those that are like-minded. But, fear not PC user. I've been a Mac guy in a PC world for a long time. I can coexist peacefully with you. :) Get to know me. ;) If you'd like to know more, just ask.I'm not looking for a hook-up, but there's no place to put this, so I'll mention it here. I am top/vers. I think the most important thing, even before the first date, is to see if there is a connection. For me, if I'm interested in someone, I like to meet casually first. I'm not one for endless back and forth e-mails. Let's meet in person. Maybe we'll meet for coffee or something, just to chat and get to know each other. It's nothing serious. Just a chance to see each other and see if we have a mutual interest. From there, I'm all for having an official first date. For that, I'm completely open. A quiet dinner at a restaurant works. Or, maybe lunch somewhere. A romantic place is also nice.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bowling Soccer / Football
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