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Jamar, 36
United States, Louisiana, Fort Polk

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About Me

I am a down to earth, funny, intelligent, and passionate guy who doesn't take myself too seriously. I recently finished a doctoral degree and post-doc fellowship, which consumed much of my life for the past few years. With that behind me, I am more open to and ready for a serious relationship. I love what I do for a living. I am a psychologist who specializes in early childhood and family intervention. I am passionate about my work and find it incredibly gratifying. However, by no means does my work totally define me. In my free time I love to do yoga and run. My motivation for physical activity comes more from my investment in my physical and mental well-being than for my aesthetic appearance. I have practiced yoga three days a week for a few years now, and I run in the fall and winter (I love early morning runs when the air is crisp and the sun hasn't risen yet). I also feel like I've been away for a long weekend after a long day of skiing. I believe in taking care of myself - body and mind.As active and I can be at times, I also have a lazy, bumming-around side to me. I love sleeping in on Sundays, reading and drinking coffee in bed, going to movies, and watching football, The Voice, or Top Chef.Something good to know about me is that my family and friends are an important part of my life. I am a very loyal friend and person. I have solid relationships with my family and friends, and I love seeing my friends and family at least a couple of times a month for a long dinner out, with lots of laughter and good conversation.My family has definitely shaped the value I place on family.-fashioned: I'm looking for a partner who also values family, whatever that may look like. I like first date environments that can be brief if they need to be, like coffee - in the event that one person realizes early on the fit isn't there. But, I also like having the option to expand coffee into a long walk, to a restaurant for dinner possibly - in the event that there is a good fit, and conversation flows naturally.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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