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Bennie, 38
United States, New Jersey, Denville

Offline, last seen Fri, 16 Jan 2026 06:28:55

About Me

I'm going to just throw this out there first,If you do drugs, or are only on here to play games and don't want anything serious or long term, DON'T BOTHER WITH ME.For the rest of you, stop in and say hi.ME New to this area. Been over two yeas and I just don't know? Its different around here.I'm 5 foot 8 or 9 inches tall (pick one) had a physical at work a and they say I'm 5ft 10inI always thought I was 5ft 8in so I'll split the difference and say I'm 5ft 9in. not fat, not skinny, (Well I've been called scrawny, is that a body type?) My gut is above my belt where in needs to be.I wear my jeans on my ass and not under it,Dark blondish hair that seems to be mad at me for drowning it in water and shampoo everyday and is now leaving me.(still trying to come to terms with it) Sooo buzzed and cool hats are the way to go I think.I have tattoos, (not covered in them) I think what I have is tasteful.I work, ***yrs, same place)I eat, (most anything put in front of me)I sleep,I live alone, (getting boring),I still play with toy cars and airplanes,(Radio Control stuff is still a hobby)I can swear like a longshoremen when I get aggravated,I smoke cigarettes, but not in the house, nasty habit I keep outside! (Camel Menthol Lights)I drink a beer after a long week of work, (Guinness)I work all night and sleep all day on days I have to work,I come home filthy,Boxers and briefs (no, not at the same time!)I don't like NASCAR,I LOVE vintage Honda motorcycles, I'm a motorcyclist, not a biker,I don't do drugs, unless you consider coffee and aspirin, then I'm an addict.I'm not a Bible thump-er, but I was raised in a Christian home, and most of those morals stuck with me,I'm a guy so I'm not perfect,I screw things up,I say the wrong things sometimes,I laugh when I maybe shouldn't,I'm so good, I can fit both feet in my mouth at once,I can apologize after I remove the feet,I'm still working on the whole mouth/brain disconnect thing I suffer from sometimes.I'm shy,I'm horrible at 1st dates, I'll open the door into the side of my face for you and then trip over the door step and turn bright red.I'll trip over my words,I chew with my mouth closed,Ill shoot my straw wrapper at you.Once I relax, I'm a bit of a smart ass, and will say some really dumb off the wall sh*t just to laugh.I like to think of myself as an old school 50s hotrodder/grease monkey living in the wrong era. You know, back when men looked and acted like men. I'm a middle class/common Joe and I wouldn't change a thing! I'm perfectly happy doing what I do. I want to find the girl that is going to be excited to see me every morning for the rest of our lives, the same way my mom and dad were. I'm simple, Ill hang out on a deck with my gal, a beer and friends before I go out for a night on the town, I want to have a fling with the same gal day after day month after month year after year for the rest of my life. I want to fly home after work as fast as I can just cause it means a kiss from you, I want to be sitting in the nursing home at 90 years old still winking at you from across the room, knowing that you are the love of my life.I'm looking for somebody with similar life qualities as myself, A female version of me if you will? My best friend?FAVORITE ME?And it's OK to message me too. I am pretty easy going, I'm totally ok with a coffee or a lunch, cant expect to much on the first meet n greet. I just hate how it feels like a job interview.Im not into the bar idea, I mean come on do you really want to get to know me while we sit there and get bombed? LOL grab a sandwich and a background check?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

French South American Volleyball
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