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About Me

**First off, I'd like to note that I am currently "married" but separated. I'm in the middle of a divorce. Divorce papers have been filed, I'm just waiting on the process to work itself out. She does not live here. I'm not some married creep looking for something on the side. I'm not looking for a rebound either. This has seemed to be a problem for some, so I figured I'd start off by throwing it out there.**I'm not that guy that's here looking to get laid by every girl I talk to....just the easy ones. JUST KIDDING! Seriously though, for the record I won't even respond to messages from trashy/slutty girls. I have standards and class and am looking for some class in a lady as well. I want to make a real connection with somebody. Somebody I enjoy being around, couldn't get enough of and who is always on my mind. I realize it takes time to build up to that. I'm not the type to get all clingy after the first date...no worries. I have a great sense of humor, so the ability to laugh and handle a little sarcasm is a plus...scratch that, it's a must. Must have personality and like to have fun. I'm not a partier or anything. I rarely drink...but will on nights out. In moderation of course. Never had a DUI. Don't have a criminal record. All of my friends from my partying days to now would always have described me as the responsible one. I'm dependable and honest and looking for the same in a partner. Honesty is HUGE. Who wants a dishonest person? Why are there so many? A little more about me, I can be a bit shy. I'm not the guy to approach every girl...maybe even any girl while I'm out. You wouldn't know it on a date though. I guess that's the good thing about online dating....you can kind of get to know someone and break the ice to get past the shyness before you ever meet. I know how to treat a lady and what it takes to make a relationship work and how to keep a girl happy. I'm a single father of an 8 year-old boy who I love to death and am very proud of. I don't mind dating people with kids of their own, and have found those relationships actually work out a little better, as both people have the understanding what it's like to be a parent. Also open to dating someone without children if you can handle my situation. I'm not looking for a replacement mom for him or anything, my mom, his grandmother, spoils the heck out of him and pretty much fills that void. I do have a real job and own my own business on the side. Please don't take my "profession" as me being arrogant or unemployed....just goofing off. :)That's all I can think of at the moment. I'm sure I'm forgetting a ton of stuff though and will update frequently as it comes to me. In the meantime, if you liked what you've read and would like to know more please don't hesitate to write. I know you ladies get a ton of *** here, so I tend to send very few myself. If I've viewed your page but not written that doesn't necessarily mean I wouldn't love to hear from you, so I hope to hear from you.Take care and good luck in your search. As cliché as it probably sounds, I think the perfect date would be a dinner and a drink (or drinks if the date goes good and neither of us is ready to run for the door lol). It just provides the best chance to sit face to face and carry on a good "get to know you better" conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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