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So how do you sum yourself up? Going through the process of writing and rewriting this took allot of thought and soul searching. What do I say to accuratelyr represent myself? To represent what I am looking for, there are so many things I could say about myself. The many success's in my life, as well as the failures. Do our failures in life not say as much about us as our success's. Anyone can sit here and tell you how great they are. Though to not acknowledge my failures as well as my success's would make me a fraud and a hypocrite. If you fail, at least you tried. So yes I have failed in love and at times in life. I guess that is what makes me the man I am. When I failed, I immediately got back up to try again. That is what I am doing now. As I have said I have failed , or at least not had much luck at love. I have wondered why, and have tried to improve in those areas. So about me. I guess first and foremost I am a father, brother, son and uncle. I am very spontaneous, adventurous, loyal, dedicated, a survivor, passionate lover, fiercely protective, outspoken, hard headed, (at times) and am not afraid to show my feelings. I enjoy being around people, hanging out with my friends and family is one of my favorite things to do. I like to get out and enjoy life, though I can also be happy at home with the family. I do not do drugs, but I do drink on occasion. I try to never judge anyone, but try to accept them for who they are. I love being outdoors, try to go to the Ozarks as often as possible. I love concerts, dive bars, canoeing, bar-b-que's, or just sitting on the patio listening to the world. As for music? I like country, classic rock, rock and some R&B. I am not into any type of games or drama. Life is entirely too short for it, and I am definately not getting any younger. Though I don't feel my age there is definately no denying it. Are we all not looking for something real. Someone we can talk to, be open with, tell all of our fears, triumphs and heartaches. I know I am. When I think about what I want, the movie "The Notebook" comes to mind. I want a love like that, one that will stand the test of time and endure. So many people have separated because they have "grown apart". What is that? How do you grow apart? If you truly love someone dont you grow together? If we were meant to be exactly the same would we not have been made that way? Isn't it our differences that make life interesting? We ask ourselves, what is it that first attracted us to that special someone? Was it their eyes, their smile, their body, the way they could make you smile or laugh? Then as time moves on you find out the deeper things. Though it is our differences that make it interesting and exciting. It is like taking a vacation somewhere you have never been, you get to see all the things you have never seen. The same is true for a relationship, it is the excitement of the unknown. I revel in my differences, embrace them and accept them. They make me stronger, happier, and more enthusiastic for life. They make me unique. As for what I am looking for in a partner. First and foremost please do not mistake the fact that I am looking for a partner in life. I am not looking for a casual sex partner, a hanger on, or someone who wants something for nothing. I want someone who knows what they want out of life, Someone who is okay with a family. Someone who takes care of themselves, is spontaneous, adventurous, fun filled, has her own mind and is not afraid to speak it. Someone who is ambitious, loyal, honest, trustworthy, a woman who is not afraid to show her affections and emotions. I could go on and on. Though I refuse to settle, I also do not need perfect. I just need you to be you. If you have got this far, then maybe you like what you have heard. So would you like to know more? Then take a minute and send me an *** am not into neverending ***, so if you are not wanting to get together and take a chance, then I may not be for you. If on the other hand you are ready for life and all the possibilities, then maybe I am for you. So what do you say are you brave enough to give me a try? Hope to hear from you. I will respond to everyone, either way. Thank you for taking the time to read my profile. Something fun, that we will both enjoy. We can decide together

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Cleveland

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    Man. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 37-47

    Hello,I hope you're having a great day - and thank you for taking a peak at my profile :)So, how do I describe myself without sounding like I'm on a job interview? It's a tricky task, but here goes:I asked a female friend of mine her opinion of me, and who she thought would be right for me, here's her response:"Charlie....you need a loving, compassionate, selfless, honoring and respectful woman - just like the type of man you are. That's the type of person that will appreciate you for the person that you are." I try to always take the "nice" approach, and believe we should always treat others with kindness and respect. In doing so, I also expect similar treatment in return.Most of my friends would describe me as friendly, dependable, dedicated, funny, intelligent and a little bit of a flirt.I lead a very active lifestyle and seem to always be on the run somewhere. In addition to my Monday-Friday career as a Marketing Manager, I enjoy a variety of activities outside of work. I love to travel, and hope to do more of it soon. I lived in France for 6 months and travelled all over Europe and would love to go back. I've also thought I'd love to try going on a cruise someplace tropical soon.Closer to home, I enjoy exercise in many forms, and lead a fitness oriented lifestyle.-blade some of the roads near my development. I enjoy spending time with family and friends ***we often go out for dinner and drinks - I'm a big fan of sitting on an outdoor patio on a nice day with good company and cold beverages :). I'm also a sports fan, and am always up for watching Monday Night Football, or catching Bruins or Sox game with friends. There's nothing like watching a college or pro hockey live - once you try it you'll be hooked!I attend church about every week, and I volunteer a lot of time there. Over the years I have realized how blessed I have been, and think it is important to give back to others who are less fortunate.Who am I looking for? A woman who is confident, intelligent, independent, open minded and caring. A best friend, a confidant, and someone I can trust. Someone who can love unconditionally, knowing that I will do the same. I like nice, cute, physically active and adventurous women, and I think funny, playful and seductive are great qualities too. I don't want a woman for what she can do for me (I can cook, clean, and take care of myself). I want to find a true partner to more fully enjoy life's experiences with.As for my headline -- well, I've heard the Islands of Tahiti are awesome - ever been? I'm always looking for new vacation spots and welcome your suggestions :) I've got a funny story for you here ***let's save it for the first date however :).For first dates I typically want to go somewhere that has a good atmosphere for conversation. I like to be active, so something like mini golf, shooting pool, skating...I'm always up for an adventure, so let's make it something fun ***I have no hard rules other than let's get to know one another and enjoy the process :)

  • Gino

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    Man. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 37-47

    you..I am a very soft hearted man/romantic, who takes the time to make people smile. I enjoy being outdoors in the sun and also those quiet nights/days inside relaxing beside the one who makes me feel good. I am single and therefore, looking to meet that one person thati can make and she make feel (good, cared about, and think about), on a daily bases. I enjoy children and a proud father of 1 boy, whom just turned 10. l love music, have a loving family and just want to share myself with that special someone. well, thats about it...i hope to hear from you! hmmm, start out by taking a drive out of town, to some cool old historic city. maybe, find a nice strip that holds a day of window shopping and a nice little pub for a cold beer and some lunch. I guess, seeing where the evening goes from that point.

  • Ardal

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    Man. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 35-45

    I enjoy the outdoors as long as im doin something productive or exciting. My favorite interest is to shoot pool on a league and just for fun with friends. Im a hopeless romantic so the options are limitless

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