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KoriOffline
Man. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: woman. In age: 34-44
Its hard to judge authenticity and genuineness in a few words on a profile. Dating can be fun, and dating can be a chore, but I find it immensely more satisfying when I can be honest with you about who I am, you are honest with me about who you are, and we are honest with ourselves about how we feel and what we want. Deal? Good. One of the things I learned a long time ago about love is that it is a choice. So many people have been deceived into thinking that love is a feeling. Don't get me wrong, feelings will play a part in deciding who we enter into relationships with, but in the end it comes down to a choice. And it is within the act of making that choice that true love exists. In the morning, when you see your spouse sleeping there, mouth open, drool coming out, a new blemish setting there on their chin, we may not have fancy feelings of love. Or when they do something that is selfish or hurtful, we may not feel "in love", but when we make the choice to still serve them, to cultivate those "feelings" of ours into returning, to honor them and sacrifice for them, we choose to love them. It is in this area that most people have fallen short. They think feelings come before the choice (which does often happen in the early stages of relationships), but in truth, it is the choice which precedes the feelings that enable true commitment, and allows the true manifestation of love. I am an affectionate guy who enjoys conversation. I do my best to let the Lord lead me in all that I do. I am not a Christian who just shows up on Sunday mornings, puts in my time, then goes home and is done with the "god thing" for the week. ***, I want Christ to be a daily reality. I want to be a spiritual leader and a servant in my home. DEAL BREAKERS: We all have those things that are deal breakers to us when it comes to romantic relationships. While I'm happy to make all the friends I can, at the end of the day I still hope to find that person I get to love for the rest of my life. And here are the things that I simply won't accept when it comes to dating. -Smoking -Non-communicative (I like to refer to myself as "verbose with a strong need for an active communication connection") -Not wanting children (I have four, of which two are not mine legally yet I still care for them regularly. If you don't like children I am not your man. Fatherhood is one of my primary callings) -Hot and cold (If you aren't sure what you want, or you aren't sure who you are deep down, look elsewhere. I've had too much wishy-washiness in my life) Something where we can talk and connect
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MaxwellOffline
Man. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: woman. In age: 36-46
I am a easy goin kind hearted guy. I like to take everything one day at a time. I like movies, playin pool, bowlin, or just hangin out and doin whatever. I have a great sense of humor and lookin for the same. Friends have always said they enjoy bein around me. Cause I can crack jokes and also have a intelligent conversation.I am lookin for someone who is wanting a good man in their lives. Someone who is more worried about the personality and how well the clisk. Then how they look to other people. People today worry to much about looks and how they will look to other people with someone. Then what will actually make them happy. You hear about women sayin they want a sweet, caring, sensitive man. But yet they will always skip over them. And go for the guys that always hurt and abuse them. I say this cause I am a big guy, always have been. But I carry my weight well. Anyone who knows me, knows I always treat a woman well. I treat them with respect and dignity.
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KentOffline
Man. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: woman. In age: 35-45
Hmmm, online dating... So I'm new to online dating and not sure what to expect from this experience, but I'm gonna try and jump right in. In short I'm here to meet new people, try something new and hopefully find someone I can connect with.About me:I consider myself confident, open-minded, caring, likable and playful. I have a few favorite hobbies that include weekend beach excursions, coastal fishing, boating and swimming. I love kids and have two boys ages 5 and 7. They are super charged kids, ready to go anywhere and very respectful of others. If you have kids I'm cool with that too as I prefer to date a family minded woman who realizes the importance of putting kids first. I have my children 50% of the time, which leaves me with a lot of free time I didn't expect. I've been divorced for almost three years now and have no lingering issues about splitting. My job is in retail sales so I'm not intimidated by speaking to strangers and I can converse with just about anyone willing to listen. I like to drink cold beer at the beach and red wine in the winter. I'm a meat and potatoes kinda guy. I love having someone too cook for and having someone cook for me as well. I enjoy all types of music from TOP 40, 90's alternative, 80's hairbands, southern rock and classic rock. I have a job, I own my home, my car is paid for, I have two dogs, two kids, all my teeth and have my life pretty much together. I'm hoping to find a mature woman in a similar situation who's free spirited, intelligent, confident, honest, relaxed and real to spend some quality time with. I am NOT looking for a project! First date, I think having brunch on the weekend would be nice way to get to know someone. Maybe something that is mutually planned that doesn't make the other person feel awkward...