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Of course saving the world means knowing, loving, changing (saving) yourself first. That might mean changing your life! Can you do that or are you stuck?I am an extremely outside-the-box thinking guy who is very passionate and intense. Intensity means that I come across strongly sometimes even if I don't want to. But once you get to know me, you'll see I am just a big teddy bear (that's what the girls say at least).I have been rich. I have been poor. I am now more rich in the right ways then I ever have been. That is due to a major spiritual revelation that happened around ***. Let's say that I am financially secure, and in the best physical, mental, and spiritual shape of my life.I founded and am helping to nurture an intentional community in the East Mountains. http://www.NewDawnNM.orgI founded and do geek stuff for Startbutton.com. I have been programming computers since ***.I am a drummer and I jam a few times per month with some co-workers and we are toying with the idea of becoming a "band". I stay at New Dawn too. I have an RV so I can stay anywhere.I have 2 brilliant, beautiful girls (to the same mommy). They are around 6 years and 1 year old. Mommy and I are twin flames *** and she will always be part of my life. But we seem largely incompatible in many important ways related to daily living/life.If you are a brilliant, good-looking woman who can handle some intensity and who might want to get together with the idea of joining me on my journey of creation and discovery, let's definitely talk!Optimally, I am looking for: tall and/or curvy, long dark hair, a nice smile, confident and serious about life but knows how to be goofy and have fun while doing it. I like a woman who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to say it. Only then can I be her teammate to help her get it. I am not really picky when it comes to physical appearance. If I have chemistry with you, and we fall in Love, you will become the most beautiful thing to be cherished and adored in every way.If you are "stuck" in a job or career, or tied down by a baby's daddy, it might be hard for us to have a future together. But we could still talk and hang out possibly if there is a connection. And who knows, maybe you'll want to "escape" with me someday! :)You can learn a lot more about me on my *** if you work at home and are tired of doing it alone, come meet us at *** and one more thing ... PLEASE have pics on your profile that represent what you look like NOW! ... I am pretty tired of seeing one thing online, then meeting someone 50lbs heavier. Curves and plenty of padding in the right places is very nice. But obesity to the point where you are just clearly not taking care of your body is not. Usually starting coffee or a drink is best with me. Optimally with an open schedule so we can see where it goes after. Live music and/or dancing is always a fun way to get to know each other. (as long as it's not TOO loud so we can talk!)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Man. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 34-44

    Its hard to judge authenticity and genuineness in a few words on a profile. Dating can be fun, and dating can be a chore, but I find it immensely more satisfying when I can be honest with you about who I am, you are honest with me about who you are, and we are honest with ourselves about how we feel and what we want. Deal? Good. One of the things I learned a long time ago about love is that it is a choice. So many people have been deceived into thinking that love is a feeling. Don't get me wrong, feelings will play a part in deciding who we enter into relationships with, but in the end it comes down to a choice. And it is within the act of making that choice that true love exists. In the morning, when you see your spouse sleeping there, mouth open, drool coming out, a new blemish setting there on their chin, we may not have fancy feelings of love. Or when they do something that is selfish or hurtful, we may not feel "in love", but when we make the choice to still serve them, to cultivate those "feelings" of ours into returning, to honor them and sacrifice for them, we choose to love them. It is in this area that most people have fallen short. They think feelings come before the choice (which does often happen in the early stages of relationships), but in truth, it is the choice which precedes the feelings that enable true commitment, and allows the true manifestation of love. I am an affectionate guy who enjoys conversation. I do my best to let the Lord lead me in all that I do. I am not a Christian who just shows up on Sunday mornings, puts in my time, then goes home and is done with the "god thing" for the week. ***, I want Christ to be a daily reality. I want to be a spiritual leader and a servant in my home. DEAL BREAKERS: We all have those things that are deal breakers to us when it comes to romantic relationships. While I'm happy to make all the friends I can, at the end of the day I still hope to find that person I get to love for the rest of my life. And here are the things that I simply won't accept when it comes to dating. -Smoking -Non-communicative (I like to refer to myself as "verbose with a strong need for an active communication connection") -Not wanting children (I have four, of which two are not mine legally yet I still care for them regularly. If you don't like children I am not your man. Fatherhood is one of my primary callings) -Hot and cold (If you aren't sure what you want, or you aren't sure who you are deep down, look elsewhere. I've had too much wishy-washiness in my life) Something where we can talk and connect

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