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Bradley, 40
United States, Connecticut, Ledyard

Offline, last seen Fri, 28 Nov 2025 14:19:17

About Me

So... where to begin? Im a divorced father of 2 kids who mean everything to me. I love outdoor activities, such as camping, hiking, racquetball, boating, scuba diving, 4- While I do like to stay active, im not opposed to a night out at a movie or dinner, or even just hanging out and in front of a fire while watching old DVD’s, as long as its with someone who actually wants to be there doing that. To me, the activity isn't as important as the company. I've got everything from Johnny Cash to Eminem on my Iphone, although probably more Rock (80s, 90s, and newer stuff) than anything else. I was raised to be a gentleman. I'm old fashioned enough to still believe that a gentleman opens doors for his lady, and that she deserves to be treated with respect. I am very affectionate, even in public. I want someone who appreciates my sarcasm and wit, and who doesn't mind if I spoil them on occasion. I take great enjoyment from surprising people I care about with gifts and things. I am looking to find someone with similar interests with whom I can develop a friendship first and see where it goes from there. That being said, I am not into "friends with benefits". If and when things get serious, I am a loyal, monogamous person and would expect the same. So if you are just looking for a booty-call, I am not your guy. Maturity, intellect, and charisma are far more appealing to me than supermodel looks. I stay pretty busy between work and raising my kids, one of whom I home school, but I can make time for the right person.Conversation is important, and my ideal partner would be intelligent enough to carry on a conversation with me that concerned something more in-depth than the latest episode of some reality show.Oh, and I should probably mention that I am not LDS, but I do believe in God. I am not obnoxious about it however and don't try to force my beliefs on others. That being said, I try to raise my kids with Christian values, so if someone were overtly new-agey that would probably be a no- And yes I have had that happen so I felt the need to add the disclaimer.Still reading ? Drop me a line, and let's see where things go. I think for a first date, we should go somewhere or do something where a conversation is actually possible, so we can get to know one another. Movies, or other noisy places aren't a good setting for this, so I would say a low key Dinner and/or drinks would be a good start, or maybe something a little more exotic like ice skating or Lagoon, depending on the season. Even bowling, or something less physical like a walk through a park would be fine.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Craft Making Video Games Chinese French Japanese Portuguese Watching Sports
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