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Monty, 38
United States, Connecticut, Ledyard

Offline, last seen Sun, 19 Oct 2025 05:54:02

About Me

okay so I've been here before and the thing is I've learned what I want and what I don't want and what I will and will not compromise on.so here is my list:1. first we all have flaws I'm very well aware of mine and I'm not going to try to nitpick yours and I expect the same in return. I want to find someone who accepts me for me for all the good things and the bad things that make me who I am and I hope to do the same for someone else.2. I am a father first and foremost and I raise my little girl the best that I can she is with me full time but that doesn't mean that I can't make time for someone else. I understand being a single parent and respect that if you are a single parent as well that we can only make so much time but if you're interested all I ask is that you make the effort and stick to it.3. in the future I would like to share in raising one more child together. If you can't have children or don't want more I completely understand and I respect where you're coming from however, I also know that you're not going to be the one for me.4. if you don't like or don't care for the military or someone who's been in the military you are definitely not going to be for me. I spent nearly 18 years in the military service and I'm a decorated combat veteran and take pride in my fellow veterans and my military.5. if you don't enjoy movies video games camping fishing hiking backpacking outdoor sports sports in general shooting guns etc then you're also not going to be for me. I do enjoy going down town and going to restaurants in getting out and being active but at the end of the day I still like to be able to share some interest in common with the person I'm with so that we can do activities together and with or without the kids.6. I have tattoos a lot of them and I hope to actually get more someday. so if you don't like tattoos I'm probably not going to be your type of guy either.7. physical attraction and chemistry is a must in any relationship but so is being able to establish a good healthy friendship based on other things other than physical or sexual attraction. That being said I don't necessarily have a type but I do prefer someone that is active and outgoing and even if you have a couple extra pounds you're willing to be active with me and work on it together as a couple. I'm pretty much up for anything but at the same time I think a first date coming from an online dating site should be something where its public you're both comfortable and it can be over quickly if things go bad. I'd like to think that a first date should be something like a park coffee I drink something short just to get to know one another and see if you have anything worth pursuing for second date and then the second date should be something that you really put a lot of effort into and have a lot of fun with.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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