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Arin, 38

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About Me

.. My life today is primarily about my amazing daughter. We play, sing, and dance like there is no tomorrow! We stay really busy between swimming, the zoo, omsi, festivals/parades, yearly events, hikes, and anything else we can find to get into.I am still friends with a lot of my childhood friends. I purchased a house in my childhood neighborhood. Were my friends and I still hang out, play sports, camp, fish, and play cards together. My life and journey to date have been like no one I know. I am a former Drum & Then back into more established careers where I worked for the state, worked in healthcare, then worked for the swoosh, and now loving my job. I have two large dogs. They are trained better than any dogs I know, yet if you do not like dogs... We probably aren't going to work out.I enjoy hanging out and relaxing as much as going out. People describe me as the most honest person they know. I value trust, communication, honesty, loyalty, and people who enjoy giving as much as receiving. If you ask me, I can dance, sing, tell jokes, and hold a intelligent conversation with the best of them! Love all music, from jungle, to heavy metal (my old roommate is one of the best drummers in town in many metal bands), jazz, folk, old school rap, and on an on! If it has a good beat, acoustic sound, or beat that is hitting, I am probably digging the sound! Looking first to be friends... My match will be independent, know herself, have a passion for life, wants to give as much as receive, and can hold a conversation. ~Regardless, be true and be you...Update: You are all beautiful for who you are, yet I am USUALLY attracted to what this site considers thin, athletic. and average women. No intimate encounters either, so I had to update my profile. What am I, meat? *** Also LOTS of liberties with how old you are ladies... The truth will set you free! "First Date"In the car I just can't wait,to pick you up on our very first dateIs it cool if I hold your hand?Is it wrong if I think it's lame to dance?Do you like my stupid hair?Would you guess that I didn't know what to wear?I'm too scared of what you thinkYou make me nervous so I really can't eatLet's go, don't wait, this night's almost overHonest, let's make this night last foreverForever and ever, let's make this last foreverForever and ever, let's make this last foreverWhen you smile, I melt insideI'm not worthy for a minute of your timeI really wish it was only me and youI'm jealous of everybody in the roomPlease don't look at me with those eyesPlease don't hint that you're capable of liesI dread the thought of our very first kissA target that i'm probably gonna missLet's go,don't wait, this night's almost overHonest, let's make this night last foreverForever and ever, let's make this last foreverForever and ever, let's make this last foreverLet's go, don't wait, this night's almost overHonest, let's make, this night last foreverForever and ever, let's make this last foreverForever and ever, let's make this last foreverForever and ever, let's make this last foreverForever and ever, let's make this last forever

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Bradley

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    Man. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 37-47

    So... where to begin? Im a divorced father of 2 kids who mean everything to me. I love outdoor activities, such as camping, hiking, racquetball, boating, scuba diving, 4- While I do like to stay active, im not opposed to a night out at a movie or dinner, or even just hanging out and in front of a fire while watching old DVD’s, as long as its with someone who actually wants to be there doing that. To me, the activity isn't as important as the company. I've got everything from Johnny Cash to Eminem on my Iphone, although probably more Rock (80s, 90s, and newer stuff) than anything else. I was raised to be a gentleman. I'm old fashioned enough to still believe that a gentleman opens doors for his lady, and that she deserves to be treated with respect. I am very affectionate, even in public. I want someone who appreciates my sarcasm and wit, and who doesn't mind if I spoil them on occasion. I take great enjoyment from surprising people I care about with gifts and things. I am looking to find someone with similar interests with whom I can develop a friendship first and see where it goes from there. That being said, I am not into "friends with benefits". If and when things get serious, I am a loyal, monogamous person and would expect the same. So if you are just looking for a booty-call, I am not your guy. Maturity, intellect, and charisma are far more appealing to me than supermodel looks. I stay pretty busy between work and raising my kids, one of whom I home school, but I can make time for the right person.Conversation is important, and my ideal partner would be intelligent enough to carry on a conversation with me that concerned something more in-depth than the latest episode of some reality show.Oh, and I should probably mention that I am not LDS, but I do believe in God. I am not obnoxious about it however and don't try to force my beliefs on others. That being said, I try to raise my kids with Christian values, so if someone were overtly new-agey that would probably be a no- And yes I have had that happen so I felt the need to add the disclaimer.Still reading ? Drop me a line, and let's see where things go. I think for a first date, we should go somewhere or do something where a conversation is actually possible, so we can get to know one another. Movies, or other noisy places aren't a good setting for this, so I would say a low key Dinner and/or drinks would be a good start, or maybe something a little more exotic like ice skating or Lagoon, depending on the season. Even bowling, or something less physical like a walk through a park would be fine.

  • Malach

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    Man. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 33-43

    I like to spend time outdoors on my ATV, traveling is also one of my favorite past times. Majority of my time spent with good friends. Life is to short to play games, so be who you are and say what mean. I always try to do my best at what ever it might be. In the end it's the simple things that make you happy. Dancing and music is one them, I enjoy concerts and go to four or five a year. But in the end its not what your doing, it's who your with. A nice place to talk.

  • Sonny

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    Man. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 34-44

    I learn from my mistakes and keep on moving forward. I have a good head over my shoulders. I’m looking for a caring, honest, independent, outgoing and funny partner. I\'m picky about who I date.

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