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Erroll, 37
United States, Connecticut, Ledyard

Offline, last seen Sat, 29 Nov 2025 22:13:34

About Me

Hello Ladies,I find myself back at square one after 10 years of marriage. I'm not a bar or club type of person so what do you do? meetville I guess:)I have many interests as you can see, but always welcome someone with some different ones for something new. I'll partake in yours if you will mine:)My relationship goal is to find a partner to finish out life with, someone supportive and easy going with excellent communication skills and no drama.Honesty and faithfulness are important to me, and I can't find myself being with someone physically without an emotional connection. When that connection is there though.....watch out:) I am responsible, always employed, hard working, and on time. I work in construction management, I may be dressed up for a meeting or company party one day, then the next day I'm chest deep in the river covered with fish slime, battling for position at a kart race, or turning wrenches on something greasy. I don't "indentify" with any particular social group which makes me unique but it also makes for some difficulty in finding a good match for a partner with many common interests.I enjoy a variety of rock, metal, and industrial music, open to most other types as well except twangy country music and gangsta rap.I am looking for a woman that is a good match, down to earth, knows what she wants, and isn't afraid to show it. I am not materialistic and don't have any financial expectations of my partner except being responsible with what you have and appreciate it. There are far too many entitled people these days and I am not one of them.My family is a mix of Christian and non-religious people, I do attend church a few times each year and am not against going, but I don't let religion control my life either.Please complete the chemistry and needs part of your profiles ladies, I can't stress how important this is as it exposed a lot of mismatch between my ex and I. My story there is we separated in February and have papers pending. I've been emotionally detached for some time as her BPD really exposed itself after we had kids and kept getting worse. It has been uplifting to get away from being an emotional whipping post, not something I need years to heal from.We will be sharing custody of the kids and I will have them on some evenings and weekends with my ex's rotating evening work schedule. Please be receptive of them as I will towards your kids.My meetville etiquette is as follows: If my profile interests you send me a short message and lets get some dialogue going. We're all busy and no one likes pouring all their thoughts into a message to not get a reply. Don't favorite me and then stay silent.I WILL reply and let you know if I am interested or not, and I expect the same from you. Don't be shallow.If I start seeing someone I will put "dating someone" here and go exclusive after the first date, I'm not going to date more than one person at a time and play a bunch of games.Additional Likes:Discovery channelHistory ChannelPETA-People Eating Tasty AnimalsBuilding thingsWOT-

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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