Kay, 34
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I'm a nerd, and an artist. I enjoy video games, comics, movies, music and how they are made. As well as art in a classical sense. If you have a problem with this, then click away now, because you wont be changing me. However, I'm not a hermit. I love company and I'm generally known as a great person to hang out with. I've been to other countries and lived on my own,and even had a stint in the Army. And, I love getting out and hiking, swimming, and generally experiencing life when I can. Want to go to a bar, watch a movie, climb a mountain, or sing karaoke? Why the hell not, I'm down for anything.I've learned through life that anything can happen, for good or bad. I may seem lackadaisical at times, but you've never met someone who can role with the punches like me. Don't let my general disheveled looks fool you either. I prefer comfort, but my mother didn't raise a slob.Lets face it though, a career where you sit on your ass and click a mouse all day can take a tole on, well...your ass. So...I'm a little fluffy at the moment. It's something I'm working on...Relationship-wise, I'm very giving, emotionally. I like to feel connected to a person. I'm just looking for someone I can be interested in. We don't have to have the same interests, just a respect for each other's passions. Someone who doesn't mind giving and receiving help, freely. Also, and this is big, HONESTY. Is something annoying you? Tell me. Not sure you are interested in me after a while? Tell me, I can handle it better up front, than drawing it out. I would do the same for you. Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind. But I would never hurt someone just to make them suffer.Recently I've been adopted by a neighborhood cat. What started off as a friendly (if one sided) arrangement of food for pats, has grown into a solid friendship. Now he's never more than a few feet from me at all times. Not sure why I'm even mentioning it on this website, but I guess its just kind of funny in a way. The only thing I have to show for 2+ years of being on this site is a cat, that has nothing to do with this site at all. Should have guessed plenty of fish gets you...a cat.Turn offs:1. Women who start off their profile with "I love to laugh!" Really? No kidding. Even super-villains like to laugh. A lot. Might as well put "breathes often" in your interests.2. Your boobs as your profile pic. I know they're awesome, but there is a whole other half of the internet that is boob-based. How about you show me a pic of why YOU are awesome, and not your "girls".3. Psychopaths and psychotics. Like to murder people? You are not for me. Fixate to the point of lunacy on something or somebody? Not for me. Have no qualms hurting everyone around you to cover your own ass? Not for me.4. Monosyllabic messages. Let's all agree online dating is weird. But it doesn't get easier if all I get from you is "Hi", or if I try to ask you questions to get to know you better and all I get is "Yes or No". Conversations are about our only tool for weeding out the weirdos here. You've got to at least TRY. 5. I can't believe I'm having to tell GIRLS this, but its come up more than I'd like...I'm NOT interested in open relationships, one night stands, or **** buddies. You should have asked me when I was in Highschool, and still thought that crap was cool.Pretty easy, right?So, make it to end of all this and still give a crap? Then send me a message, I'd like to meet you. On a first date, I would likely meet you somewhere relaxing to eat, or have a drink. I would attempt to look at your eyes when we talk rather than any other part of your anatomy that might be showing. I would make sure to order something I could eat without looking like a barbarian. After a good bit of small talk to break the ice, and hopefully getting to know you better, we could take a walk, see a movie, go to your favorite bar, or just watch stupid cat videos on your iphone, I don't really mind as long as you're fun company. I think the correct term would be "Winging it". After all, it's about getting to know you more than the activity.
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