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Obadiah, 34
United States, Maine, Wells

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About Me

I am a geriatric mental health counselor. I have recently completed my Masters degree. Due to being in school for the past two years and working a full-time job, I have not had much time to date. I am now ready to dip my feet back into the dating pool. I love to watch movies, especially scary films. I enjoy going to the local parks and fishing. I am quiet at first, maybe a little shy. One of my favorite activities is watching live bands. I have been a DJ since age twelve and was a radio DJ for a short time. I love all genres of music but alternative and punk is my favorite. I love children and hope to have a rug rat or two someday. I have worked with children in school and counseling settings. I have even managed a teen center at one time. I am a big kid at heart that likes to play. Seriously, if you see a bunch of kids playing at the park in some big organized game (rollie bat is my favorite), I am the biggest one. I know when to be serious but I am very light hearted. Love to laugh and hate to be caught up in drama. I have never cheated on anybody and will not tolerate liars or cheaters. A past love interest called me a big teddy bear with a gigantic heart. I adore that description and I think that depiction does me justice. I have been dabbling in the culinary arts. An ideal date (maybe not the first) for me would be to cook dinner for my companion and then watch a great movie. We could have a nice conversation while I prep the dinner as well as during the meal. Afterwards, we could have snuggle time as we watch a splendid film. I got to have a nice car ride with the female and enjoyed an excellent show.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian House Reggae Caribbean Vietnamese Golf
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