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Garfield, 33
United States, Michigan, Lake

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About Me

Where do I start...well since most of the people who get in touch seem to ask the same things I thought I would clarify a few of them in my profile. Firstly I am a dad who likes to spend a lot of time with my son as he is the most important person in my life, but he is now nearly an adult himself and is becoming less interested in relying on me and more interested in doing his own thing (I am told this is just normal and shouldn't take it personally :-) lol). Because of this I get to do pretty much what I want with my spare time, it's just that I prefer to do fun stuff with him rather than trawl the local nightlife scene which has become more tedious every time I do it.My actual age is 39 but it apparently my profile says I'm 33!! If anyone knows how I can change it please let me know! I wouldn't worry as I don't act or look my age anyway or so I'm told. Having a good circle of friends which keep me grounded with sometimes uncompromising banter also helps quite a bit!My main hobby is training a martial art called Brazilian Jiu Jitsu which I discovered after taking my son to train for self defense. I absolutely love it and the best part is it keeps me fit and in shape but is nowhere near as boring as running on a treadmill or struggling through a myriad of meat-heads all trying to get on the weights bench in the local gym.A few other basics are that I am very well house trained and have my own house, car and job which enjoy etc etc. I love to cook and experiment with all kinds of recipes too. I'm very self sufficient and love the peace and quiet of my own company as much as I like to spend time with other people but there comes a time when finding the yin to your yang becomes more of a priority which is I guess why I am here :-)Well I'm sure there is loads of stuff I have left out but if I carry on there will be nothing for us to talk about. P.S. Yes all of my photos are recent and not photo-shopped or deliberately blurred to hide the crows feet!! lol Do people really need to resort to this to gain some interest. I assume at some point we are going to meet anyway and would not want to see a look of disappointment on your face on the first date! That wouldn't be a very good start now would it!? ;-) Maybe go for a drink somewhere quiet and cozy or a walk in the country or if you're feeling more adventurous make a suggestion and chances are I'd be up for that ***

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Cycling Indian Indonesian Japanese Rodeo Shooting Sports Volleyball
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