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Stephanas, 35
United States, New Jersey, Parlin

Offline, last seen Thu, 05 Feb 2026 22:31:33

About Me

-con by the smoker thing ;) secondly I'm sick of chatting... Lets be real people and do real things!!!! People when they first meet me always seem intimidated, but people that know me say I'm a teddy bear. I have a few close friends that I really don't see often enough. I seem like a quiet guy. I'll give 'till my last, for those who need it more. I have a vast knowledge of random B.S. that comes in handy at times(Jeopardy anyone?) and love to have deep thought conversations about science and other geeky things. I make music, I guess it would be considered my "passion" and I am working on playing places now. I make live drum and bass/breakbeats on machines you'd just have to see how I play to get it I think. My career kicks ass ***yrs. now!), my life has been exceptional:) I've performed at the smithsonian,been the infamous V.I.P. doorman, dirty jokes are my specialty. I'm not a heavy drinker (yes, I can go out and stay sober). Have a little wonderful co-op farm I live at, and a great dog that is about the size of a squirrel...who could ask for more??? Well... now I think I just want to meet some fun people that I enjoy spending time with, falling in love would just be collateral damage(in a good way obviously). Honesty, sincerity and kindness go a long way with me. I'll bend over backwards for the right people. So please feel free to ask questions, I can't wait to make some new smiles:) So now that thats out of the way...This will eliminate 99% of you I'm sure! My amazing girlfriend is gone a lot traveling, and has encouraged me to date. We are a polyamorous couple, not swingers. I know it sounds weird, it did to me at first too, but I love this girl, we live together, and I like being a good man, doing chores and spoiling my woman. I hear about the "other man" in conversations and it doesn't bother me. I hope it doesn't bother you. As you can imagine I'm a pretty laid back guy in thought but hard working otherwise. Honesty obviously not a problem...And thats where I run out of things to say, your turn. If we really hit it off I don't think we can fail can we... love is cool shit, sometimes it hits you by surprise like a sucker punch :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Metal Rock Play Musical Instrument French Irish Thai Vietnamese Rodeo Shooting Sports
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