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Shelah, 27
United States, New Jersey, Montville

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Well lets see my hobbies are as follows, I watch alot of movies and I mean alot like 3 or 4 a day,well maybe not that much thats a little obserd, but I do enjoy them quite a bit, its like going to a different world for only a moment. Lets see I collect vintage *** jewelry, and until recently I was a serious porn addict...lol Just kidding, kinda. But now that seems to be behind me along with an array of other dark areas of the past and unknowing mistakes. Hey they say mistakes are meant to learn and grow as humans are intended. And the only way to truly know is to try. I'll try almost anything twice or maybe even three times..lol Hows that for honesty!..I'm sure thats going to go swimmingly well over here, and lets see what else, I really enjoy going out to eat, the ambiance the food the whole experience, and also until recently I have immense pleasure in sleep. The whole process really, getting naked or in comfy clothes, snuggle up in bed with a lover or friend or pillow if you have neither and just drift of to another relm, although now it seems I never can...weird...I am a very lucid dreamer. I have been classically trained on violin, piano and guitar since I was three, but by the age of seven I accepted that guitar was my forte. Its nothing like a hobby or pastime, it is my life and who I am, attached to my very soul, an extension of myself. And on to goals, I'm a dreamer even when I'm awake. Perhaps a bit too much at times, always in the clouds, but fully capable of achieving them all. Also to reconnect with my lost love, my mate and queen and live the rest of our days in heavenly cascades of happiness. And what makes me unique...hahahah pretty much everything! I am quite sure you have never met any one quite like me. I go against anything popular or trendy or convienant. I have more clothes and spend more time on my hair and makeup than most women. A wonderuos judge or character, almost too much so at times, pretty much immediatley. Very generous, and very kind but only to ones I care for and love. I do not over use the word love or discrace its awesome meaning. Because when the end comes, after all is gone, the only thing that will remain is love. I'm a romantic at heart and soul, but I make it very difficult to let one in unless you show me something true and unique. Most people do not realize this, they think I am boustrious and funny and wild and alive, a character out of a book or some play, much for there amusement. Wishing they could learn more or know more or understand because I am so over the top and different I seem to them almost not real. Not to sound vain or arrogant, but most people I come in contact with either wish they could be more like me or want to know more about me, or why can I shamlessly be so open and free, not care what others think about this or that and radiate such passion and light. Fearless. Which to me is quite silly, everyone is capable of such things. Its sad that most will never even try. People in general are to me like moronic sheep or robots, its a shame to say but its sadly the truth. They do as they are told, believe what they are shown, and never achieve what they are truly capable of because they can't let go, they can't express themselves because they are afraid,always trying to fit someone elses idea of the perfect or cool shoe. However a person is beautiful a genious, brillant in individuality glowing from their inner core. I guess thats what I am looking for, a companion, whether friend or lover. But a true human being, that understands themselves and with every little thing they do exuds wonderment and beauty. Someone that everything they do seems like an artform, completely and utterly unique. As far as music, I am one for the classics, especially the Romantic era as well as Baroque. Bach, Vivaldi, Beethoven, Paganini, Liszt, Chopin. Non of that hippity hip hop, no sir. However I can enjoy some primative music and shake my little white ass to an array of things. House or electo or electronic tastes. And finally I am an autodidactic, and everything I have learned I have taught myself through books or observations but mostly through life experinces, in other words I am a horrific speller, but fine speaker. An old soul that knows his way around the block wherever I might wonder off to. After all thats all life is...its a series of stories, of tales of adventure and love and lust. What will your story book say when your gone? Take care always and forever, Ciao I always believed a classy sushi bar is ideal for a first date. There is plenty of opportunity to converse and really get to know eachother over light food and drinks. Plus you don't have to be embarrassed huffing down a big cheeseburger or pasta,,,,ohhh thats the worst. All that slippering and spinning. So I guess a sushi joint to start, see how things are rolling ( I won't make the obvious pun here, hope you get that). And perhaps go to a nice lounge or two and sip tasty drinks, get a little looser, let our inner selves come out and be a little silly. Probably say things we shouldn't or do dance moves that should have been left in the 60's. Then maybe crash a hotel and pretend we stay there. Go up in the elevator pretend to get off to go to our room but really change in the bathroom, giggling all the while, find some towels and head down to the hottub. Until we inevitably get kicked out while pretending we don't speak any english. So were having such a ball, we don't want the night to end, the company of eachother and the intense chemistry is overwhelming. We feel a distant calm, like we knew eachother all along. So we look at eachother and realize the night doesn't have to be over, so we go to one of our places, drink a little whine. Get into some comfy clothes and laugh and talk the night away, put on a movie and cuddle. Maybe we fool around a little maybe not, it doesn't matter, just the warm embrace of eachother and the experience is enough to keep us satisfied and content. We wake up, by the way I look very good in the morning and never have bad breath...lol And get some breakfast in bed, smoke a joint over coffee and head out for a nice walk, maybe go to a park or the zoo. but is sounds like an awful lot of fun doesn't it? I also looooove art galleries and going to see a play. Or a nice classical concert or Opera, perhaps sip some delicious wines over exotic cheeses. I enjoy a wide variety of things, but I always believed a really good date should end with something completely spontanious, out of no where, like the hotel thing, or end up on some random rooftop somewhere overlooking the city as the sun comes up. Anything fun and wayyyy out there, that in that exact moment, there is nothing that sounds more right.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Pop R&B Adventure Romance Dirt Bike Racing Drag Racing Ice Hockey
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