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Benny, 29
United States, New Jersey, Pompton Plains

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About Me

Firstly, I'm so apprehensive to even be on a "dating" site. In doing so, In some sense at least, I feel that I am admitting defeat. saying that I have no social skills or courage and can not meet a women in the " real world ". (Which, I fell at least, couldn't be further from the truth). But, needless to say, against my better judgment......I signed up....Secondly, I would like to add a rather hastily contrived list of myself, to ideally, catch the eye/heart of a like minded person, of the opposite sex...(Rest assured, I possess far more then listed)In a nutshell, I'm a hopeless romantic who's heart has taken permanent residence on his sleeve. I am Highly verbal, a social butterfly according to my mother. I have a very dry, dark, at times subtly crass, cynical sense of humor. I love a vast array of music, the majority being underground. (At one point I was in a very torrid love affair with film and music. But sadly, we three, have moved on to pursue other passions). I have rediscovered my love for the English language via William Shakespeare. I am most recently reading a book of his sonnets, which is nothing short of amazingly clever, beautifully written, and rich with poetic eloquence. ( which is an under statement ). I don't watch t.v. I much rather listen to radiolab, this American life or something mentality stimulating. At the current juncture, I'm in hot pursuit of my L.M.T certificate. (licensed massage therapist)I dance tangoInterested in having an fiendishly clever, engaging conversation? Do us both a favor and do not hesitate.Till then...Lastly, I must admit, when one has pictures showing 90% of ones clevege, of one in a excessively tiny dress/skirt, or scantily clad at that matter. Anything that would be an embarrassment if your kids where to stumble upon it whilst surfing the inter-web.... (its not a deal breaker for me, it only makes me think you just might be a floozy, or that you are a habitual bad choice maker).... But, I do understand, that you've got to have some fun and can't just be serious all the time....Also, I'm VERY attracted to intellect and intelligence. So, needless to say, I can't stand slang. (it only makes you look/sound stupid)...English is an amazingly vast, beautiful language. Please don't neglect the opportunity to paint an incredibly gorgeous, vivid picture with it. (elaborate, extrapolate) I can forgive many transgretions, if you are able to have a mentally stimulating conversation. If not, I do not care how "hot" you think you are, or told you are. If you can't hold a conversation......I can't hold an erection..... Anything that affords us the opportunity to have a lengthy conversation.Go dance tango.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Techno Canadian Caribbean German South American Turkish Adventure History Romance
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