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Samir, 29
United States, New Jersey, Neptune

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About Me

First things first. I am tired of watching all those shows and movies where the guy gets to hold a girl of his dreams. Kiss her and receive the same back. All the while knowing that i use to have that want that again but dont have that. I am probably the one guy who will would and had made a commitment without question. I was once asked what movie describes my life. I think the new movie mud depicts it best. Long story. A boy who wants to fall in love but his mom and dad are getting a divorce. The boy also meets this girl who is a couple of years older. He stand up to this other guy who is being an ass to her so they go on a date and he thinks she is his gf. Basically the mom wants to leave though it will mean the father can't use the river boat which is how he makes his livelihood. The strangers gf leads the stranger on and always calls on him when she is in trouble but won't stay with him because she always goes with strange guys. And the boys gf of sorts leads him on but doesn't want her friends to know about him. So it's a pessimistic look on how women leave the guys hurt and abandoned. But at the end a girl waves at him and he smiles knowing he will never give up on love. This best describes me because:I feel like the father who doesn't want to give up on the mom. The stranger always chasing love only to be put on the back burner. And the boy who gets one good night before being discarded. But at the same time again I feel like the boy because I will never give up finding the love of my lifeOk now that I have said that ladies. I am not a BS type of guy. I have been looking at this website for a couple of months to see what type of responses i get. Almost every girl out there says they want pretty much the same thing. An honest nice caring stable motivated guy. Others made add or leave off a couple, but in general you all have the same point. So be honest to yourself if you want more than just the personality and finacial stability, just say it. I say this because i read everyones profile that fits my list of what a girl needs for me to be interested. so please dont waste my time. if you want a tall rich handsome guy, great! Say that. I am not him. I am 5'7, nice, take the world by the b***s and do what i want sort of guy. I have a very balanced personality. I love foods of all sorts. If i havent tried it, i want to. I am a hopeless romantic who loves pleasing his girl. Meaning if she wants things done different i have no problem changing and letting her take control, but at the same time I am a Marine so dont think i cant protect the people i love. I am a man who knows what he wants. The girl i want will be the girl i will be with for the rest of my life. My best friend, my conscience, my better half and my love. So i want a gal who is beautiful, one who is smart, one that weighs less than me, and one who knows that money doesnt buy love. I have lived in 7 countries and been to 27. I speak a little of 14 languages. I can read in 4 languages. I was a US Marine in intel as a cultural advisor. I taught english in Australia for five years. And now i am a paid student. I was a wrestler for 14 years, played baseball soccer and crosscountry for 11 years, and studied MCMAP (Marine Corps Martial Arts Program) for 5 years. I have a drivers liscence in 5 countries scuba liscence, and a liscence to teach CPR and First Aid. I am a go getter. If you are serious and interested in me mention how no one every says yes to the drug question. lol (and no i dont)But at the end of the day, I want to cook dinner with the girl i love, try new dishes, make conversations about the new food or a new bottle of wine. I want to go furniture shopping, build a life. I cant wait to put thought into what present to buy you or cook breakfast in bed. I want to be in a position to choose my friend or my girl, to be an "ok-guy" and put you before myself. I have been with some great girls and great relationships but at this point, i want one that intends to last forever. I have read lots of profiles. I am into what the girl wants. I want to do something different but something she is going to enjoy. If it is a spontaneous date. I will do the usual. Movie dinner etc. But i am assuming that you ladies want to get to know me before going on a date. So i would probably have an ideal of what your interest are. I hope to have one of those hollywoood dates. I am keen on going hiking, beach, carnivals, brunch or if girls want excitement, shooting range jet skiing or a concert. But i am also cool with picnics, putt putt and plays. if you have better ideals then im up for that too.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

British Chinese Documentary Family & Kids Martial Arts
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