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Benjamin, 26
United States, Illinois, O Fallon

Offline, last seen Fri, 06 Feb 2026 01:42:43

About Me

My personalityI can be very spontaneous and fun. I love dancing in the car to a good beat preferably 104.3 or 102.7 on the radio and thoroughly enjoying myself. I work with kids and have a very active imagination which some people find hilarious. For example a friend came back from Cambodia and he showed me some pictures of the trip. When we arrived at some of the ruins he explained that they used to have emeralds, rubies, and other precious stones attached to them and those stones were stolen throughout the centuries. I proceeded to suggest that 3 men take 2 bedazzling guns each and bedazzle the statues to look like they used to. Plastic is easy to replace and it might look cool. I also smile a lot. I do accents at random times, bust out into song whenever the moment strikes, please be ready for spontaneous ridiculousness if you are going to hang out with me. Work HabitsI work with children who have autism. I love my job! I don't want to do anything else for work at this point. My HobbiesHiking, singing loudly in my car to technoesque music, I play guitar sometimes, I enjoy anything where I get to spend quality time with people. I also very much enjoy going to bed at ***p.m.What I'm not looking forI've had a few people who are transexual or Mahu send me messages I wish the best for you, and I am more than happy to strike up a conversation with you, However I'm not interested in being anything more than friends. I'm also not interested in chatting with people who want to discuss sports incessantly. I am not a sports fan, never have been and probably will never be one. The Gold Digger, this one should be obvious... I do not have an unlimited supply of funding and I am trying to save for some life growth purchases at this point. I'm willing to sing for someone, I'm willing to cook for someone, but I cannot afford jewelry and gadgets all of the time. So if you are looking for a sugar daddy then I'm not the person for you. Extremely religious people, if your religion works for you... Great! Please don't preach to me I've had a very varied religious past and am at a point now where I just don't like hearing about how great your religion is and how wrong my views are. WarningsI am a very friendly person, I can strike up a conversation on the bus with people whom I don't know and feel completely comfortable. I am super ADD at times. If you cannot handle someone who is super friendly than we shouldn't be friends. Pet PeevesIt's time to just be honest here. I prefer the quick blunt and to the point method of communication. If you are not interested then tell me so I can waste less of my emotional energy. If something I say bothers you say something about it. What I'm Looking ForA few good friends that I can make laugh and do a bunch of activities with including hiking, surfing, going to the beach, grilling, chilling, cooking. Good conversation, and people who match my sense of humor. Fun dates with no pressure, coffee, beach, other various activities. Open to suggestions. Mostly I'm looking for friends and if something develops then that's great, if not then we had a crap ton of fun! Someplace public where we can have a good conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop Latin Indonesian Italian Mexican Turkish Vietnamese Action Crime Documentary Horror Mystery Pets Play Sport Games
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